it's been a few days now and i've tried disturbing my baby's sleep at night and i've succeeded in getting him to wake up even earlier and not getting him to go back to sleep until his usual time still. and he seems to have shuned his naps all together, so all i have now is a very tired and cranky baby who wont sleep at all, and i am at my wits end. i don't have the patience or stamina to deal with him, and all i seem to being doing is getting instantly furious with him every time he make a sound. it is so bad that when he screams i just scream back at him. i am nowhere near family, i have no friends out where i live, and his daddy seems to think that being a stay at home mom is the easiest job on the planet. i have no one to help me so i'm doing it on my own.
every time i try and set a good schedule for the baby, his daddy swoops in thinking he's trying to help me and starts working against me and what i'm doing. i've told him several times that if he's going to help with getting the baby to sleep it needs to be quiet, and have the lights turned off and to just slowly rock him to sleep. what he does is sit in a glider with the tv on and turned up, rocking for about 5 minutes then stands up and starts bouncing really fast, then turns the baby around to where he can see the tv. i've told him that all of that keeps the baby stimulated, and awake so he doesn't want to go to bed. and it's not just the sleeping he's being counter productive on. i have no idea how to handle him, or change the habits daddy has set.
i am so overwhelmed that even as i type this in i'm practicallly in tears. please someone tell me that i'm not the only mother who has to deal with this.
brandy