Hi again!
Well, these last 2 days have been interesting....DH, DS and I spent the last 2 days outside the whole day, wandering around a provincial park and at the zoo. Although DS did not have structured naps (all were just when he chose to fall asleep in the stroller), he stuck to his usual 3- half hour naps throughout the day. The interesting part is....DH and I decided that we were committed to changing DS's sleep habits. If it took picking him up 150 times, we were going to do it. Can you believe it, the first night we began a routine (eat-b'feed, bath, cereal, stories, bed) and we only had to go in and shh shh him 5 times. Tonight, we have only gone back in once. I am floored! We were so prepared for a struggle, and it appears to be going pretty smoothly. The only thing I did differently was to give him a little stuffed animal to cuddle--and sped all the time outdoors. I think it may have exhausted him enough to just give up the fight. We also removed the swing from his room, so there is no temptation to put him back in it - not for a while at least.
He still cries at the top of his lungs when it is time for bed--he can't even hear me read him a story. But I have resorted to earplugs for my own sanity.
Melissa-thank you so much for the encouragement! BTW, I have already read (and own) Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child--I wasn't able to get that to work either!
So, in summary, he slept in his crib last night, and is in it again tonight--so far so good. Maybe next week I will work on lengthening his naps-so he won't be so grumpy...but for now I am pretty excited about how things are going!
I'll keep you posted!
A couple of questions if anyone can answer them (about pat/shh):
1. I think I remember the sleep interview saying to continue to pat/shh for 7-10 minutes after they are calm. If he never really calms down (only mildly, until he goes right to sleep) do I continue until he is asleep? Will he thne depend on the pat/shh to fall asleep?
2. Is it ok to use pat/shh on a 4 month old? It appears to be working, and picking him up usually means he cries even more when we lay him back down.
3. After they fall asleep, do you continue to pat/shh for any period of time?
Thanks,
Shelley