Use this link for PM's if you haven't already
http://babywhisperer.com/forum/private-message-amp-other-links-vt42672.htmlYou can try using these instructions logging out;
point your mouse over the log out link at the top, right-click your mouse and select properties, when the properties box comes up, right-click your mouse on the text next to "Address: (URL)" it should start http, then 'select all' (you have to do this as some text is hidden) once it's highlighted, copy & paste it into your address bar, now delete the the before babywhisperer.com and press 'go'. See if it logs you out.
You don't really need to worry about it, you're not showing as logged in as I type this.