Thanks for the advice. I hate letting her cry it out, but I do have a 3.5 year old who sometimes needs my attention (she was an angel baby and toddler, which helps a great deal, but she can't make her own meals :wink: ). I haven't figured out how to deal with those situations when I'm concentrating on shh/pat. I can ignore the phone and door, but not my other child. We've tried two different pacifiers, and she doesn't seem to like them. Awake time is short and I am on her with that first yawn
On the bright side, we managed to get two 3.5 hour stretches between feedings last night. The second one my husband did the shh/pat for about an hour then came to bed saying "I'm not done yet, I just needed a break" and he never had to go back!
We've decided to put a hold on trying to cluster feed and dream feed for now, concentrating on sleeping at the moment. With my first, my husband was home for 2.5 months (he's a teacher). This time he had just gone back to work when she was born, which makes everything harder!
Thanks again!