Hi Branwen thanks so much for offering to help....more than once aswell
Wind down i normally start 15mins before nap is due, i allow him 1h30m awake time then take him into my room, dim the lights and lay with him on the bed - i give him his favourate soft toy to nuzzle and sing songs to him. I then take him into his room lay him down, put on his mobile turn the lights out and leave - he did just fall asleep at that point.
I dont have a rocker no, and havnt rocked him in weeks and weeks but i will try this.
Were all convinced hes teething but im not sure if i can see or feel anything - gums are hard anyway so its difficult. He does dribble allot, put things in his mouth and have little red spots on his cheeks - but would he just cry at sleep time if it was teething?
Our rountine isnt really an EASY one, i feed him at 7-11-3-6.30 and because he will only nap for 30mins and has done for ages (ive given up stressing about that) sometimes i do have to feed him right before sleep but i always make sure hes awake when i lay him down.
I posted on the PUPD board and said there that ive gone back to work three times a week and my mum either feeds him to sleep or puts him in the pram or car. Ive tried talking to her - in fact i have just got off the phone with her again - she says he wont conform to any book and that i should just do it the natural way and stop using these stupid techniches. I bought a travel cot but shes only put him in it once. This could play a part couldnt it? Although it is only 3 times a week and i dont mind him falling asleep so much in the pram or car as i can then have a little freedom myself but im not happy on feeding to sleep. She liturally props him up with a pillow on her bed and feeds him until hes out. Dont wanna just blame her tho, maybe its me. Im so stressed out right now and on top of that just found out im pregnant :?