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« Reply #630 on: December 29, 2005, 04:57:56 am »
Yay for Kelsey!!  Heather, I guess you just haven't fed her anything she liked before!  :wink:  :lol:

Oh, for those interested in our Disneyland trip photos, my MIL put this little photo story together...
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« Reply #631 on: December 29, 2005, 14:39:59 pm »
Tammy, I would have liked a basketful of snacks, box of nursing pads and a crossword book.  I used to sit for 45mins breastfeeding and doing crosswords and nibbling.  I too got constipated, maybe add in a bottle of prune juice.

Heather, I don't notice she's getting theeth till one pops thru and then I look and feel that the matching one is puffy and it pops out in the next day or so.  Emily just recently got her top two teeth and the two beside those started about a week ago.  Also she has two eye teeth that came thru at 4 months, so that's 6 teeth now!  And Yeeeeahhh about Kelsely's ECHO:)  That's the most improtant thing:)

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, that's so awesome that Daniel did so well during visiting.  It just makes you love them that tiny bit more;)

Debra, eesh, sounds like a horrible time at your friends house.  I too would be crying.  We were at my parents the day after christmas for a big family party and everyone was screaming (and I mean I had to plug my ears) the answers to Pictionary and thank god Emily slept thru the whole thing.  I was shocked.  But they all left by 10:00 and I was in bed in a quiet house by 11:00pm.

JulieB, your reply to Deb made me think about one morning when Emily woke at 5:30 and I had fed her and put her down to play and my grandma (visiting) comes out of her room and says 'oohh, what are you going to do (in a worried voice)?  She's up so early!'  And I'm thinking, gosh this woman has had three children and she thinks it's the end of the world if they're up by 5:30am?  About potty training, I'm waiting till Emily can sit really stable and then we'll try.  I'm hoping soon after her first birthday.

Us, Christmas had it's ups and downs.  I loved Christmas day cause we just stayed home and my parents visited.  We started presents at 8:00am and though it was overwhelming for Emily she loved all the excitement and attention.  And it was really special to see her walking by herself in front of the Christmas tree.  The day before we visited the inlaws (45mins drive) for lunch and Emily wouldn't sleep in her pack'n'play.  It didn't help that I asked for a dark room and although it has only one window it was super bright and the cuckoo clock around the corner rang and I wanted to throw it across the room.  So I told dh we were leaving and he kept wanting to stay cause his mom made him feel bad and kept hanging on to him and I just grabbed the baby, the keys and went out to the car.  Dh came out about 10mins later,  oooohhh I was fuming.  I called later to apologize that we couldn't stay to make dh feel better but I mean I really think she should have apologized to us!  But thank goodness emily slept perfect in the car.  Then MIL calls today and asks can we come for dinner this Sunday, and I said no because dh hasn't had hardly any days at home to relax and is at work today.  And she says 'well I already thawed the duck', and I'm thinking well I guess you'll have a lot of duck to eat!  She's such a guilt tripper and gets this tone in her voice to manipulate/guilt you into doing something you don't want.  Anyways we have some bad history with them and so I have no patience for playing 'games' with them.

Happy Emily news, she went from tummy to sitting once!  She can easily walk across the room and turn around.  But still no crawling and can't fall properly!  Very strange but exciting!

Phew, I'm so glad I had a chance to post and read about everyone's holiday!  Now off to make bottles...


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« Reply #632 on: December 29, 2005, 19:40:04 pm »
So happy for you Heather. What a wonderful day!  :D

I just bought formula today - I forgot that we won't need it anymore in another month!  :shock:

Anyone else feel sad that their baby is turning one?  :cry: Now that we are getting closer, I keep thinking about the things I was doing last year at this time. All the preperations etc. Then yesterday I was cleaning out Leah's closet and putting away her receiving blankets and I smelled one and it totally brought back memories of when she was little.  :( OK, I'm done now. Just had to have my own little pity party. Maybe I should think about those nights when she was awake for hours upon end, then I won't be so sad!  :D
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« Reply #633 on: December 29, 2005, 23:46:58 pm »
Just wanted to quickly check in.  We've been dealing with all sorts of Maya drama this week.  She got her new helmet on Tuesday.  She seems to be doing ok with it, but the drive down and back was an ordeal!  And if that wasn't enough, it seems she has impetigo on her face (a bacterial staph skin infection).  Hope all is well and everyone is enjoying the holidays!
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« Reply #634 on: December 30, 2005, 01:22:40 am »
Deborah-I was just going to post and ask how Maya is doing.  I'm so sorry for the rough times.
Christine-I'm an emotional wreck about the whole 1st b-day!  It has gone completely too fast!   :cry:
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« Reply #635 on: December 30, 2005, 04:06:01 am »
I'm with you on the first birthday pity party!   :cry:   Well, I'm actually handling it better than I was.  I was SO sappy when he started walking.  I kinda felt like that was the last "baby" milestone.  It seemed to suddenly propel him into toddlerhood because he looked so much more grown up.   :(   I also get sappy when I think about weaning him in a month!  That REALLY seems like the end all!  So I've been pondering the idea of nursing a bit longer.  It's been so much better this last month since I dropped to 3 feeds.  He is so much more aware of it now and he really seems to enjoy the comfort part of it now, whereas it always just seemed like a food source to him before.  I'll still introduce milk after his birthday so I don't have to pump if I want to go out, but otherwise I'll just see how it goes.
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« Reply #636 on: December 30, 2005, 08:38:16 am »
Just quick to say yay to kelsey that all is normal! what a relief for you Heather.

deborah - i hope maya is ok! not been an easy run lately has it?

Tarri - yay Emily!!

Julieb - i must say that from your videos i have thought for ages that Asher seems so much older. i have to really remind myself that all babies are different so i don't feel like we are "behind" (not that i am worried - he just seems so advanced and i have to remember that he is advanced the others are not behind...)


Dh is on me about how much time i have been spending on BW lately and moderating etc and now i have to go clear up the kids dinner dishes...  :roll:  we had a whole chat last night as he thinks i am on here avoiding my own problems... (to which i said - what's wrong if that is true?  :lol: ) he thinks i should put more effot into my RL relationships and my home stuff.

BTW - i was crying at my friends house not because they woudl wake the girls (who were sleeping fine in a bedroom) but because i was exhausted and I could not get to sleep since i was in an open space on a futon outside the girls room (the "other couple" had a bedroom around the hall from us) Thanks for the support though and the PMs - have not had time to write back yet
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« Reply #637 on: December 30, 2005, 20:15:42 pm »
Happy holidays everyone!   :D   Hope everyone has just about recovered from all the upheaval that Christms inevitably brings....  What are people's New Year's plans??!  We still have my mum staying with us (tight squeeze  :? ) but we are just going to stay in and have a quiet one - we had Christmas with 11 relatives at my aunt's.  Ciara has coped great despite teething - seem to be 3 or 4 coming through up top.  She still gobbled up some turkey and even snatched a mince pie for herself - you would have thought she hadn't been fed in three days! 

Heather - that is great news!!   What a relief that must be for you!

julieb - I was the same as you before becoming a mom!   :oops:  I have to remember to cut my single friends some slack when they're being thoughtless as dh and I cringe at our pre-2005 baby comments/attitudes! 

Tammy - I'll put in a vote for pajamas/slippers, ones that she won't mind being seen in but that are practical too.  I found the 'nipple hats' (they are called that in Dutch anyway!) really useful for bf. 

2005 has been an eventful whirlwind of a year for us - this time last year I was just arriving in Holland at 35 wks pg while dh spent the New Year with the dog, packing up in Denver.  All about to happen again too.....  :roll:   

All the best for 2006 - may all your wishes come true..... 

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« Reply #638 on: December 30, 2005, 21:05:39 pm »
Every time I think about Eirwen turning 1 I start tearing up.  I don't want her to grow up!  Whaaaaaa :cry: And at the same time I do.  I guess whenever I see 2 to 3 year olds I am excited though...they are still babies...more active, but still babies. :D

Potty- My plans are the same.  Introducing potty in the new year.  We will start with getting up from naps (right away) and after meals (not right away I guess it takes aprox 20 min)  She is so regular that I figure it can't hurt.  She always has her poopy at the same time every day if she has one.  I'm also going to start taking her with me every time I go too when she is awake.
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« Reply #639 on: December 30, 2005, 23:22:23 pm »
Hi Everyone,

Deborah, I hope Maya's skin infection clears soon.  And I too don't like long road trips with dd.   We have the best luck with leaving at just past nap time, but I guess that's probably impossible to plan with specialist appointments.


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JulieB, I can't believe how 'old' our babies look in the videos/pictures.  They are growing up.  But I can't wait to do colouring, crafts and baking together.

Happy Emily news, she walked right across the rec room into the office and back about 10 times tonight.  And she was laughing while walking and chasing the dog at the same time.  Kind of a laugh like when you're on a scarey roller coaster:)

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« Reply #640 on: December 31, 2005, 03:36:48 am »
Debra, I would have been upset too about your visit to your friend's home.

US:
Does anyone here not have a huge family, dysfunctional or not?  Both my parents are deceased (we were VERY close) and my DH's parents are old and have been estranged for two full years.  They have never seen their grandson. Its a long story that I wont go into but basically they are very senile and dh's sister, who is truly horrible, has moved them and wont tell us where.  Its so very sad, especially since my DH is an awesome person and has only been wonderful to his family.

  We had a good first Christmas/Chanukah because we made it that way with us, but I have to be honest, it's painful to read everyone's comments about MIL's and parents and all.  Sometimes I feel so badly that we dont have that.

I have a brother and SIL that I am close to. My own sister is mentally ill and we havent spoken since my mother died because she (my sister) is very abusive (I am happier that way and am the one who cut her off).

I do have some wonderful aunts and uncles, but they live too far away, so only one of them has even seen Matthew.

Wow, when I see all this in print, it sounds really awful.  the fact is  I grew up with a good strong family base, yes with lots of drama like us all, but since my parents died, it is totally different. I'm usually okay with all this, but with all the talk about family and the holidays, its just sort of depressing.

I do wish I had more close relatives (and not crazy sister's) for Matthew!

Hope it's okay to share this here, I consider you all to be my support team too.

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« Reply #641 on: December 31, 2005, 03:58:17 am »
Oh Julie- you make me weep, you are not alone, and I am so sorry for your loss.  My dh's father passed away when he was 27 and all of his family, sister excepted is in The Netherlands and none have seen Eirwen.  It has been so hard for him with Eirwen.  His own mother has not seen the baby.  On my side, the family is rather large, but you wouldn't know it because no one talks to anyone, everyone is so bitter and as the generations have progressed there is less and less interaction- for example because of my parents fueds my brother and I do not know any of our cousins or aunts and uncles.  It's terrible.  I am the odd one because I am the "peace maker" it is in my nature :?  It makes me sad too all the talk of family...some days I feel my friends are my family...they are the only ones left sometimes...in fact I have just been talking to my best friend (Eirwen's godparents) about maybe doing some holidays with them every year so Eirwen can have more "family". 

Regardless, Matthew is very lucky to have you as his mommy to care so much!!!  He will grow up surrounded with your love :)   HUGS!
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« Reply #642 on: December 31, 2005, 11:28:26 am »
Hello everyone! Happy Holidays!  :D
Hope you have a great new year.
We moved into our new place 2 weeks ago, and I've been on the phone with the internet people trying to get connected. Hopefully I'll be back next week sometime.
In the meantime, I'm on page 59 catching up with you ladies! :D

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Luka sleeps around 11 hours at night, and has 2 one hour naps during the day, so 13 hours in total. Sometimes (on really good days) he has two 1.5 hour naps. But those are far and few between.

We are nicely settled in, and enjoying the new place. Had a good Xmas, I hope everyone else did too.

Off to catch up on the rest of the pages  :lol:
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« Reply #643 on: December 31, 2005, 14:53:18 pm »
Tarri - Good for Emily. Walking.  :shock: Kind of scares me!  :wink:

Julie - I don't have any advice for you. But know that you always have us to vent too! Matty is one lucky little boy.

Welcome back Schae! I was just thinking of you the other day. Hope you are enjoying your new house! Look forward to hearing more about it from you!
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« Reply #644 on: December 31, 2005, 21:38:06 pm »
Schae, sounds like your move went well, it must have been quite a bit of work!  Have you started your new job too? 

Julie, feel free to share your feelings with us:) 

Tarri