hi ladies, just wanted to pop on and give a quick reply to hannah's q about dh and porn.
He does have a problem with it, In his eyes it was easier to watch it than to come in and bug me when I was massively pg. Fair enough.
But it became a problem when I noticed money dissapearing when it should have gone to bills, I get our cable bill in one month and there were $130 or porn pay per view charges on it, no kidding, I thought rent was paid, and then a month later if ind that the cheque bounced, he had gone and bought $65 of magazines, I have found videos hidden in our linen closet.
This went on for about 2 years I'd say, I let it slide, gave a lecture when it happened, but then when we went to a freind place with the kids for a weekend, he barely came near me. Well at the end of the stay I lost it, when we got home, ALL his clothes were thrown in garbage bags and I threw them out the window.
He was totally miffed at what was going on, I reminded him of all the things that had been going on, plus I told him that him preferring to "watch a skinny chick get it" as my words can be politely put, the how does he think it makes my fat butt feel. NO wonder I had a body image prob if he preferred to watch that!!!
Welll needless to say, he pulled his head out of his butt, we struck a comprimise, he realises what his actions did, and today nov. 19th is our 3yr wedding anniversary, but what is equally important to me is that in february we have been together 5 yrs.
Which brings me to how we met. It was in a bar, I went that night as a guy had said he would buy me all the drinks I wanted, well back in the day that wasn't a hard choice to make. I was sitting there and no joke I looked across the room and saw him, he smiled and something inside told me my life would never be the same, we were friends at first, not for long tho, aftera couple of weeks, I was once again drunk as a skunk, and looked at my roomie and said " I think I have a crush on andy, but it is andy, I can't have a crush on him!!", so when he turned up that night she told him, and he felt the same and that was it, three days later, in a bar, drinking heavily again, we sat proposing to each other.
So there you have it ladies, the porn and how we met,
just wondering, what are we going to do when the kids are older and we don't need to use this thread, I'd hate to loose contact with you all, maybe we could all email each other or something, pm me your email adress if you like, I am so nervous that I won't have the time to spare to be on here when I start my new job.
Also Andrea, the get together thing sounds like an awesome idea, maybe we could post something in the lounge and see if anyone else wants to meet up, or would you all prefer if it was just us lot.
Well I have had more than my fair share of a post, talk to all you fine ladies later, enjoy your weekends where ever you are.
