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« Reply #405 on: October 27, 2005, 03:28:58 am »
I've had AF visit twice already and is due again any day.  I did start on BCP at about 3 months post partum but I turned into a complete raging B*T*H.  I started complaining about how my DH was hanging his bathroom towel! :shock:  :roll:   Needless to say, DH asked me to not be on them anymore! :lol:   Definitely not trying anytime soon for #2.  #2 Has to be at the same time of year that Jackson was born so that I can have DH stay home with me again.  He was able to be home for 5 weeks for Jack. :D
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« Reply #406 on: October 27, 2005, 03:30:43 am »
do you guys know why when I try to update my profile it redirects me to the expanded forum index??  I can't seem to get into my profile.
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« Reply #407 on: October 27, 2005, 03:50:40 am »
Mickey--go to the glitches section, I think there is a link there that will take you to your profile.

Judy hugs to you.  I do not know how you do it with four and dh gone.  I truly wish I could come over and help. 

Traci- I love the framed scrap page...and I was thinking...since there are two Sophia's on the thread (Richelle is your Sophie officially Sophia as well?)  We could uh, test drive them for you ?! JK.  I am sure your friend will love it.

As far as AF goes, I need to keep better track becasue I think I have had a couple.  I had a IUD placed after Sophie...did not want any more suprises :) though very very happy for this one! I can't take BCP.I am a total mess on them, so I opted for this instead.
I also thought I wouldn't while bf, but I guess it's still possible....especailly with pumping only, I only pump three or so times a day and am able to feed her 5 with that...even more lately since she's hardly eating.

Hayley, I can't remember has Daniel gotten any teeth yet?  I know it's annoying to always be told/always be thinking--oh it's probably teeth...but seriously it probably is and thankfully the powders will help some, but he still may be out of sorts ofr awhile as a result.  it seemed like forwever that Sophie was "off" and then just recently her sleeping got back on, but now her eating is way weird.

I can't remember who said it but I agree, just when you think you've got it down, they change the rules...and it's a new game.   It helps me to remember that nothing seems to last for long (retrospect is so healing  :wink: )

Fun to chat with you Kate and Naomi.
Are we on for Sunday?/Monday
Good luck with the babies.  As my dad would say...easy does it.  Funny he always used to say that, and I just realized how funny that is in relation to BW!
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« Reply #408 on: October 27, 2005, 04:19:37 am »
OK, ladies, not much time to post or reply. Just wanted to say, had a GREAT anniversary! DH took care of DD this morning so I got a little break. Then after her nap, we took her to the zoo and a pumpkin patch. She had so much fun and we got some great pics...I'll have to figure out how to post them sometime! Our big "night out" is Sat...we have a sitter and DH and I are going out for the evening. Oh, and for those that heard me panic about the gift thing...turns out the "surprises" he got me were: 1) he rented 2 movies I've been wanting to see, and 2) he bought me a candle in my favorite scent and promised to take me for my favorite dessert sometime this week. It was sweet, but didn't make me feel guilty for not getting him anything (well, nothing I purchased at a store anyway :oops: )

DH is off the rest of the week and we have more outings planned with DD. It's like our first "family vacation" where we're not traveling to see extended fmaily.

macaire--thanks for the pep talk on leaving LO. I think I've convinced myself to do it. It's just for one night and DH and I haven't been camping in over a year. As long as it's not too cold here, I'll probably go.

Richelle--I thought it was so funny that you said you got a glare from a lady for giving the toy that dropped back to Sophie. I do that all the time (of course I brush it off or something), and I'm just sure I'm going to get a lecture someday from a complete stranger (or my own mother!). We have a dog, who DD LOVES, so I figure she's going to be licked in the face and worse. A little dirt won't kill her (as long as it's not a really gross floor or something.)

Kate--Olivia also fusses when I put her coat on her, and sometimes when I put her in her car seat, although not as often with the car seat. She's always hated putting shirts or onesies on her arms (especially long sleeves), so I figured that's why she throws a fit. I think she doesn't like her arms being "forced" to do something she can't control.

Traci--I loved the framed page you did...what a great idea! It turned out so cute!!

Well, better go, DH is finishing DF, and it is our anniversary! Have a great night all!
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« Reply #409 on: October 27, 2005, 05:42:26 am »
Kate-Ben is into arching his back and some fussiness when getting into his carseat.  I give him a toy and I have started to give him the tag blanket to distract him.  He also gets mad at me when putting on layers of clothing.  I make a song up about putting clothes on or sing a favorite song with tons of animation, I obviosly miss my first grade class a little!
Richelle-we wipe things off quickly or my latest trick is putting the toy in my purse then wipping it out again after a few minutes and a few aisles later in the grocery store.  I would love to see the footage of me on the camera in the store.
I am on the "mini" pill and still breast feeding and no little monthly friend yet.  I am truly enjoying going to the store monthly to buy a pregnancy test :?   Some days I think I am pregnant.  I think we will wait a bit longer.
A friend came over today, she is 55.  Ben barfed all over himself 1 1/2 after he had eaten.  I said wow he sure spits up a lot.  She told me that one of her kids spit up a lot too.  I told her how long it had been since he had eaten and she got me worried about the comments she made.  I reassured myself by telling myself that she was too old to know!
Has anyone had a LO with a cough yet? and what have you done?
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« Reply #410 on: October 27, 2005, 06:20:33 am »
Macaire, spitting up so long after a feed could be reflux, but I think you'd find Ben was quite fussy as well (check out the Reflux forum with the Sticky at the top on the signs).  Both my kids were/are constant spitters even up to their next feed time but neither are bothered by it, so I haven't done anything about it.  Nathan outgrew it by around 8mths.

Danielle had a really bad hacking/phlemy cough a few months back, I didn't actually do anything special for it though and just let it run it's course - it took about 10days to disappear (I took her to the doctor on about day 9 just to get her checked out anyway).  I did watch for problems with breathing and also if a fever develops then definitely worth getting checked out.

Well waiting for DH to get Nathan into bed and it's take-aways night tonight.  Oh the simple pleasures! :roll:

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« Reply #411 on: October 27, 2005, 08:45:01 am »
Hi everyone, I'd nearly finished writing a post to you all before, and DH accidently switched user on the computer and lost what I'd written. Grrrr.... probably lucky for you though as this won't be so long.  :oops:

We had a great day, Daniel did go to sleep pretty quickly for his first nap, only about 5 mins of crying/settling, still more than usual though. Then slept for 2 hours. DH and I went in to wake him at 2 hours to find him happily playing in his cot (as much as he can when he doesn't roll and is in a sleeping bag). I wonder how long he'd been awake?!? Ahh, he was happy so it doesn't really matter I guess. :lol:

He had his Pixi Photo Studio free photos taken today. As his Grandad is a Chief Fireman, I thought it appropriate to get a photo taken with fireman props. Oh so cute! A helmut, hose, gumboots and firetruck. We get one photo for free 8 x 10inch then the rest pay silly exhorbatent prices for, if we want more. We'll probably just get the free one and maybe one more small one.

OMG - do I feel like a bad mum. Just had to go and see to Daniel as he woke crying/fretful scream. Teeth - I say to myself. So off I run with the teething powder to administer. Now, he seems to be liking it, so I tried to give it to him, he's screaming so much and arching his back I couldn't get him to take it calmly. So, when he opened his mouth to cry I 'poured' in the powder. BIG MISTAKE He inhaled at the same time and swallowed the powder!!! It should disolve first!!!!! You are meant to either administer as a powder or you can put it in a little water. So next time, I'll use some water. He started choking!!!! I leaned him forward and kind of patted his back, as a mum in a panic tries to do. At least it was only powder! But it must have gone down to his lungs, cos when he started breathing kind of normally again, I could hear a wheeze sound. OMG - DH is at work, flying, so can't call him, so all I could do was try to sound reassuring for my poor wee man and giggle and cuddle to try to soothe him. He then would take about 4 breathes then BIG GULPS, then breaths then gulps. I tried to give the magic milk, but he didn't want it, tried water from sipper cup, nope, more gulping. I rang Plunket line (health line for kids) and by the time a nurse was available a couple of mins later, thankfully he was breathing normally again. While I was telling the nurse what happened and that I think all was now okay, she was trying not to laugh!!! Okay, so now he was breathing okay again, in hindsight it was kinda funny, and it made me relax a little with her laughing, but it was scary at the time. She was very nice and reassuring, and said that if anything at all changed and I was concerned to ring back, but she described it to me like if we inhaled icing sugar and what it would be like. She assured me it would disolve or he would have coughed/gulped it out of his lungs. He's now back in bed after his favourite story and fast asleep. After some normal medicine, just incase the powder doesn't do what it should.  :oops:  :oops:  :oops: Man, do I feel bad.  :cry:

Sorry that's sooo long, but I just had to let it out and I feel better for having told you guys. Kind of like a weight lifted. All this happened while I was just trying to post a hello about my great day!
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« Reply #412 on: October 27, 2005, 09:52:13 am »
Hello  :)
Naomi- To reply to your ? I have noticed that Si is starting to grumble wehn we head to her bed...Definitely an awareness of separation stage beginning-I deal with it by-Sometimes putting her down and then I just tell her "lie down Sienna" while her head is up(sleeps on tummy) craning to see me as I leave the room..and she will have a little cry at times, but I don't go back in unless she seems really upset because she knows how to self soothe and will usually be asleep in minutes---at the times when I am in there patting and soothing--I tell Ky when he comes in that Sienna needs me to help her go to sleep and I will be with him as soon as she has calmed down--He understands calming down because he knows what that means--in relation to himself as we have always used that term when he needs to setttle ie tantrum-I also sometimes get him to help me pat her on the bot :wink: 
Some days its just plain chaos with Si crying Ky yelling and me totally frazzled--but hey that is life at the moment!!
Bedtime can be the real witching hour I'm with Judy on that one...My success with a calm evening is an early bedtime for Si (6:30pm most nights) and then I can settle Ky down with his routine...
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« Reply #413 on: October 27, 2005, 15:11:57 pm »
Oh, poor Hayley!  (I'm sure Daniel is okay, so I won't be worried about him.   :D )  Such a scary thing!
I had fun chatting last night...it is confusing though with all the conversations and drink orders flying around.   :wink:
Ryan is cranky again...still not sure if it's the flu or some teeth.  Those gums are getting pretty white and he won't really let us get a good look in there.  We'll have to see how it goes.  Gotta go clean the house since my sil is babysitting here tomorrow so mil and I can both be at the preschool for Sibling Day.  Should be fun!
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« Reply #414 on: October 27, 2005, 16:54:56 pm »
Sorry to have missed the chat, but Katie appears to have another cold...I think.  (Kate, I'm with you on not being sure how much of it is sickness and how much is teeth.)  Anyway, she went down at 8 and woke up at 9:30, 10:30, was up pretty much from 12-2:30,and was up again at 4:30, 5:30, 6:30, 7:30 and 8:30 for the day.  Needless to say, I'm hoping she feels better tonight.  :) She's rather snotty today.  Saturday's my birthday, I;m hoping for some sleep. 

Hayley, poor Daniel, I'm sure he'll recover nicely.

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« Reply #415 on: October 27, 2005, 16:56:23 pm »
Hello everybody...

Things are pretty stressful over here with Arwyn dropping her catnap and all. It is a vicious cycle. Not enough daysleep = not sleeping through the night. Not sleeping through the night = very cranky baby. Very cranky baby = not having long naps. Not having long naps = not enough daysleep.  :roll:  :roll:  :roll: It is hard enough trying to adjust for the time change next week without working through this too!!

Naomi... totally hear you on the pd & screaming situation. Arwyn used to need no wind down other than going into her room, telling her it was time for a nap and putting her down in her crib with a kiss. NOW... she crys as soon as her body touches the mattress... sometimes before as she realizes she is going into her crib. I have to HOLD HER DOWN on the mattress and HOLD HER HEAD when she actually stops fighting me. She will still resist but not so that I feel I am being a mean mommy. Then she will cry very loudly as I pat (and sometimes shush) until she falls asleep. I am hoping it is developmental and her "old" self will come back. :roll: I really hate making her cry. I need to hold her for a while until she stops crying and then as soon as I put her back in her crib, it starts all over again until I feel I can start to hold her down. Sorry I don't have any advice about more than 1 child...

Traci... great page! I love to scrapbook but have not done so since my pregnancy! Your friend will be so touched that you personally made something for her daughter's first birthday.
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« Reply #416 on: October 27, 2005, 18:58:49 pm »
hey girls,

Judy-thanks for pointing out the bit about the saliva-never thought of it.
Erin- I thought he'd take it no problem but today did just an ounce.  Nope!  At least it's not all gone to waste, thanks for the reminder ( i had done it before)

Hayley-sorry about your accident with Daniel-hope he's fine.

ankie-hugs, that sounds tiring.  maybe she is bothered now by the pat and shush?  that's all i can think of.  have you tried giving her 5 minutes on her own to settle?  Cole gets more frustrated when I'm with him I think.  He woke hysterical last night after being down 3 hours.  Did PUPD for about 15 minutes and eventually held him until he calmed. Then tried putting him down and he wasn't having it.  I left and although he was VERY unhappy for about 3 minutes he then went to sleep.  I think if i had of stayed he would have been up longer.  When he wakes in the night like that now and it's not close to a feed time I go in and do a few pupds to let him know I'm there, then give him 5 to try it on his own.  I know it's not BW...but works for us.
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« Reply #417 on: October 27, 2005, 21:54:43 pm »
Morning.....

Thanks for your thoughts.... Daniel's okay thismorning, mind you I've got my eyes held open with toothpicks again. He was awake for feeding at 3 & 5am again, then up for the day at 6.30. At least he's happy and well. I'm definitely putting the night wakings that have been happening down to teeth. He was basically sleeping thru, so it can only be that. I wonder why he's feeding so much at night though? Maybe he's still not drinking enough during the day, but what can I do?

Daniel went thru the last week of screaming when I put him down for his first morning nap. Thankfully thismorning he went to sleep without a peep again. Yay!!!!! Only 50 mins sleep but as there was no stress involved I don't care! Hopefully a bigger sleep for his next nap.

DH is going away for the next 3 days (2 nights) so hopefully better nights ahead. Otherwise I'll have to go back to napping when Daniel does and I'd rather just have ME time.

I'd be keen to try the chat thing too, so I'll keep an eye out for when it's happening.

Bye girls! :)
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« Reply #418 on: October 27, 2005, 22:54:07 pm »
Can I just say hats off to all of us.  This mom job is hard work.  I have an easy baby and at the end of the day I am just totally wiped out.

I don't know how those of you with two or more do it.  I know it's something that you just learn to adjust for but man, right now I can't even imagine. 

I'll tell you what I think is going on.  DH finally wrote his exam last week.  I think I've been going on adrenaline for 6 months.  All the feedings and night wakings, all the cleaning, most of the cooking etc etc.  Now that I can let my guard down a bit I think I am just flat out pooped!  At the end of the day when Cole goes down I have no interest in cooking, cleaning, working out.  I just want to sit and veg in front of this monitor.  I am so addicted to this place.  Have you seen my post count?  It's embarrassing.

Oh well.  Just thought I'd come here and say, good job girls.  This is the hardest job anyone will ever have and we're all doing great at it :wink:
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« Reply #419 on: October 28, 2005, 00:03:02 am »
Ankie, don't know if it helps with settling, but I have to agree with cole's mum.  Ihave found that James will settle within 3-5 minutes by himself if I am not in the room.  If I stay, it takes a lotlonger, he sits up andI have to put him down.  I now lay him down and say goodnight.  He does do a little scream and I know that goes against BW ideals of leaving them when he is crying, but I think it is more temper than anything else.  Naps I just walk out leaving the door open and at night, I place him in the cot with the night light on and then I say goodnight and turn the nightlight off.  He cannot see me but I do stay in the room (easier than coming in and out).  The last week he has settled in less than 5minutes.  If he still continues after 5 minutes, I do a little pushing motion on his bottom and this calms him.  Of course, this may all change next week.  We are having luck with naps and sleep.  He is going down at 9am and 1pm sleeping anywhere between 1-2hrs.  At night, he is sleeping through from 7pmish to 6:30am and plays till 7am.

I would also like to second Coles' mum on saying I think weare all doing a great job.  Keep up the good work.  James and I are off to mothers group today.  Have a lovely weekend.

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