Once again this is about swaddling. We went to both arms out and just legs wrapped on Friday night. It's been up and down, but it's not getting any better. Yesterday, at her afternoon nap I did finally have to swaddle her. Just just kept thrashing and thrashing around until I wrapped her. Then in the night, she wakes from 4am every half hour, sometimes more. Her thrashing makes her spit the pacifier out, and I'm constantly in there replacing it. I didn't want to take the paci and the swaddle away at the same time, so I am waiting for her to get used to being swaddle free. But she's not!! I thought this would take a couple of days and it's stretching on endlessly. My DH is no help. He's not the one up all night and here struggling all day, so he just says stick with it. Or gives me a dirty look when he found out I swaddled her yesterday and said for me to call the pediatrician and let them tell me what to do. So I just need support. I know I am whining, but having no sleep and terrible naps for days just doesn't give me a lot of hope.