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« on: October 27, 2005, 14:18:10 pm »
Hi,

my dd seems bored :? Her awake time is still on the short side for 9 months 1 hr 45 or 2 hrs. and she seems to hate her toys (throws them all off to the side and then waves her arms at me).  It's getting cold so I won't be able to take her out as often anymore so I was wondering if you guys could help me come up with some activities for her!

She's not crawling or standing yet, so she's not that mobile so I think that is also frustrating her.

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« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2005, 14:25:29 pm »
Hi Branwen,

Emily's favorite activities are me holding her up against the couch while she plays with a toy, playing with the dog, playing with dh's guitar, and playing with the computer keyboard.  I can usually get 15mins of entertainment out of these activities.  But she too is bored with most of her 'baby' toys, also I think cause she can't move around much.

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« Reply #2 on: October 27, 2005, 19:32:29 pm »
hi branwen,

DS is 9 months also.
he loves:
1. peek-a-boo. (he starts to do it to amuse me!)
2. shake something that make a sound
3. open and close a cupboard door
4. roll something on the floor. try an orange or apple.
5. remote control /calculator
6. magazine

also teaching DS sign language, think this is the age he will starts to communicate.

btw, DS is crawling, standing, cruising .... he is standing every minute of his awake time!! will not sit still for 1 minute ..... i am exhausted chasing after him !! haahaaa.... so enjoy your quiet moment for the time being. once she figure out how to crawl, everything else will come very quickly.
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« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2005, 15:49:09 pm »
I usually get 3 small laundry baskets and fill them with toys, books, containers etc.  I put one in my son's room, one in the den and one downstairs.  Then I rotate the baskets every week.  Even the toys he gets bored with become like new because he may not have seen them (especially if we havent spent alot of time downstairs (and missed that laundry basket entirely!)

Another idea is to go to a Value Village and buy used toys (They're cheap and you can sanitize them at home.  Or try muffin tins and containers.  My lo likes the lids from baby food jars.  I even put him in a laundry basket and let him sit there while he plays with toys. He likes that.   Sometimes I push him around the carpet.  One more thing is to put pillows all over the floor and have him practice going over them.  Try and make a mini obstacle course.

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« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2005, 16:22:48 pm »
Branwen - I posted in the Jan/Feb Thread today about Leah's "Treasure Box".  It's just a small bin filled with treasures: old phone, old calculator, spatula, measuring spoons and cups, chip bag clips, small plastic bowls, cellophane tissue paper (the kind that just crunches), vitamin jar filled with beans that she can shake, refrigerator magnets, hmmm that’s all I can remember. Anyway, she just LOVES this box. She will pull everything out and put it all back in again. She will play for ever with it. It is the first thing she goes for now. Just an idea!!!!
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« Reply #5 on: October 29, 2005, 00:48:45 am »
Christine- I made one for her today after I read your post!  THANK YOU!  She loves it!  I'm going to keep adding to it too. So far the calculator is the biggest hit...and sunglasses.  This is SUCH a neat idea.  Thanks for your creativity!  I could tell she wasn't bored because she was making these talking sounds to all the objects like "ohh, ga, ahh" and such. YAY!
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« Reply #6 on: October 29, 2005, 00:53:42 am »
Branwen -  I'm SO glad she liked it!!!! Let me know if you think of other "treasures" to add to the box. Isn't it crazy the amount of money we spend on fancy toys, and all they really want is an old calculator!!!!  :wink:
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« Reply #7 on: October 31, 2005, 02:18:13 am »
That sounds so brilliant.....I'm making a box up tonight!!!

Thanks!


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« Reply #8 on: November 01, 2005, 14:03:09 pm »
My ds loves this!
You can fill the small bottles of coke with something that makes sound likes stones, rice, or even water with oil, my ds loves this one!!
Be sure to close the bottle with glue!
Enjoy it!
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« Reply #9 on: November 02, 2005, 03:53:01 am »
That treasure box sounds like a good idea!  I have recently washed out a milk jug and her old formula can and Allison loves playing with those.  She also likes grabbing any mail--junk mail or magazines or even newspaper-and waving those around and crunching them up to make noise. But you have to watch that, because she likes to stick everything in her mouth and she ate some paper last week!!!! :oops:
The great thing about the container is that you can hide little toys in there, and she can then find them! Plus, it makes lots of noise as you shake it!

My dd is 9 months old as well, and I am wondering if I am either not stimulating her enough or too much.  She starting crawling very early, and has been pulling up for a long time.   In fact, she takes 5-6 steps on her own, without holding onto anything.  then she falls down and goes again!  She is very active and spirited, but doesn't sleep well at all.  So, her awake time is all day--sometimes from 6am to 8pm with 1-1:30 hour nap total, if that. 

During the day, she has her run of the house, but prefers to play independently (as long as I am in the room, since we have massive separation anxiety) and goes all day long.  She is very hard to wind down.   She crawls everywhere, pulls up on the couch, takes steps , etc.  She plays with all her toys, taking them out of the toy chest and plays with her exersaucer toys.  When I try to play patty-cake or anything like that, she smiles, but isn't interested. 

Any ideas?  Should I have more structured play time?  Is it too much?  I've tried making the time before attempting a nap and before bedtime "quiet time" by taking away the noisy musical toys, but I don't know if it makes a difference.
Thanks!
~Sara, mother of Allison, 9 months

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« Reply #10 on: November 02, 2005, 16:41:01 pm »
Well congratulations on having an active little walker so early!  I think you are doing a great job with all the ideas you are offering your dd.  I bet though you get tired being together all day without a break for a nap. I know I do when my ds wont take his nap.  I thought of a couple ideas that may help you.

1)  Perhaps enroll in a play group (Check your local library) - something short (1hr) so baby can walk and see other babies.  The visual stimulation of all the other babies and parents will be good for her.

2)  My 9 month old can sometimes go 5 hours before getting tired.  For your dd after about 3 hours of wake time, keep trying the low key activities that you were doing.  Make it a long winddown and keep the routine the same as much as possible.  So start by playing gentle music, clean up the toys so there is minimal visual stimulation, hold her and read a board book to her.  Then walk around the house with her(she in your arms) not talking but just walking a route.  Do the route a few times over.  Then place her in her crib.  Leave her one or two stuffed animals or a blanket for comfort.

3)  Even if she just plays in her crib for an hour at least you are signalling to her that it is nap time.  You too, get a chance to do your own thing.  Now if she wont let you leave the room because of her anxiety then you stay with her and do pu/pd or have your hand on her back and keep saying "Its naptime darling."  She'll eventually lose steam. You have to keep it up for the next day and the next day until she's ok by herself.  There is a section on this in Tracy's 2nd book.


4)  If all of that doesnt work, try taking her for a walk in her stroller  at different times during the afternoon.  This allows you to see what time she usually falls asleep.  So go at 1:00.  If after a 30-40 min walk she's not sleeping, try walking the next day at 1:30.  Then maybe she'll give you a cue as to what time she does get drowsy.

I hope some of this helps you out.  Good luck.

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« Reply #11 on: November 03, 2005, 01:29:56 am »
I totally agree with Velvet. You have some fun ideas. I also have a spirited LO, who woulnd't nap if I didn't make her. I think your DD may be a bit overtired. Try putting her down for a nap around 9:00 in the morning. Like velvet said, if she doesn't sleep at least she is "resting". Check the nap forum for some good wind down routines.
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« Reply #12 on: November 05, 2005, 06:03:41 am »
wow, my little one only 8 months but she is already pulling up and getting around on the floor pretty good, and trying so very hard to stand.  I love the idea of the treasure box, i am going to put one together tomorrow, thanks for the idea!!!  just wanted to post that...I am always looking for ideas for bella so she dosen't get bored.
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« Reply #13 on: November 27, 2005, 07:24:38 am »
Hi Just thought id write to say I love the idea of a treasure box!! A great idea I thought that i would add to mine is a water bottle 1.5ltr filled with water + put different colourful cut up sponges and ribbons maybe some glitter you can also colour the water with a little food colouring. Make sure the lid is glued on. It is great for encouraging crawling or pretty to push around.

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« Reply #14 on: November 28, 2005, 01:24:44 am »
Great idea Debprins! I am always looking for new ideas!  :D
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