Abby (3.5 mths) is our 2nd and is doing pretty good on sleep issues compared to her brother (probably some personality differences and some things we just didn't know the first time aorund!). She is on about a 3hr EASY schedule, I never nurse her to sleep, but I am still a little confused about the 'right' thing to do when her nap is short and she won't resettle.
i.e. If she was up at 7:30 and I fed her, then she's down by 9 (very rarely can she go more than 1.5hrs). If she wakes up after around 45 minutes, and I can't resettle her at all, so she's up at 10, should I feed her (which would be only 2.5hrs) to maintain EASY, or let her play until it's been 3hrs??
It seems like at around 4 months most are suggesting moving to a 4hr routine, I don't think she's ready for that yet, but she does seem able to go close to 3.5hrs at least some of the time.
Thanks for your help!!