I had been trying pat/shh for weeks with very minimal success. But, in the past few days, I've have found a form of pat/shh that has worked incredibly well, put touchy baby to sleep within minutes and she's down for a few hours. Instead of patting her on the back, I pat her on the bum, fairly firmly to the rhythm of a clock, on her side while saying shhh, it is working so well for us. I tried going back to patting her on the back and it take forever to put her to sleep.
Just wanted to share this new found trick that I know works for my little girl, maybe not for all babes, but this one responds so well, it is such a relief. Has anyone else found that patting on the bum works really well ?