Well, we've been working around our reflux issues to keep on EASY, but it's been tough, and seems to be getting worse. The reflux is back under control (we switched to a 'better' drug), but he's still napping just 45 min at a time and waking up all night long. Between this and a currently whiney, sour 2.75 year old, I'm pretty spent! I think I just need some advice from someone with a clear head
Anyhow, here's how our day's been going...
7:30 ish, awake, breastfeed
8:30 ready for a nap, asleep by 9
9:45 (precisely) awake, asking to eat, cranky, crying, fussy, but I can't feed him more often than every 2 3/4-3 hours or he spits it ALL up
10:15 feed
naps every 1 - 1.5 hours the rest of the day, feedings every 2 hrs 45 min or 3 hrs if I can stretch it. Sometimes I can resettle one nap (with rocking, then I have to hold him) and he'll sleep for two hours or so. If not, he's really cranky. Either way, he generally cries and is fussy off and on for the entire day, rediculously overtired.
7ish, bed. He's so tired he won't stay awake any later (I'm trying to keep him up later tonight, to see what happens with naps tomorrow).
Wakes 11:30 (if I'm lucky, sometimes it's 10:30), and usually every 2-3 hours after that, awake and feeding for 15-20 minutes at a time. -- sometimes up to five times per night
7:30ish am, wakes for the day
he's just so fussy all the time, I think because he won't sleep more. I'm wondering if he's sleeping too much at night? Could this make his naps shorter? He's falling asleep in his bed, by himself (I soothe for three minutes, he fusses for five more, then is asleep for 45 min...to the second). If I go in and pat, it just seems to wake him up more. If I pick him up and rock him he'll sometimes go back to sleep, but then I have to hold him for at least 20 min or he'll wake up. Tough with a toddler! If I can't resettle him, he is really, really crabby instead of merely fussy (screaming as I carry him around the house trying to soothe him). I've thought that if he would take a pacifier we would have better luck resettling, since he roots around, but he just won't take any of the ten pacis we've tried (on rare occasions our finger will do, but not often). If I offer a feed, he'll often fall right back to sleep.
Any ideas? I'm so far past the end of my rope I can't even say.
My gratitude knows no bounds, truly.
Amanda