Just for those of you who are at the end of your tether with a non sleeper.... after 19 months of not really ever sleeping through, and many attempts of sleep training, ds has slept through 2 nights in a row and is happy to go down for naps and bedtime awake and without me in the room.... this next bit I am so pleased about I just had to share. I put him to bed about 20 mins ago, then I just heard him calling 'mama' so I went in and he asked for a drink, had one then lay down and I left. I never dreamed I would see the day, it's the first time he hasn't cried for me, but called me instead.
Good luck all and hang in there.. it will happen one day