So the problem is getting a good burp in, right? I found it really helped to do a little jiggle on my lap first, then pat the back firmly. The jiggle is almost like you're playing horsey but really small movements, supporting the head. Gets the bubbles moving up and then they're easier to pat out, even if baby is asleep. But are you also feeling that she's not eating enough per feed? I honestly had to get out a cold washcloth with Megan... :oops: Are you also making sure you're both as stripped down as you can be for the feed?