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Offline M&M's Ima

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Why does he keep waking up?!
« on: November 08, 2005, 19:10:38 pm »
He's one month old and I started "shh/pat" today. Worked great in the morning, and since then he's been waking up every time I put him down, after 5-15 minutes. I've spent the day putting him to sleep, and he's woken up within a few minutes almost every time. He's been tired all day! (good sleeping leads to more good sleep, and the opposite.) what am I doing wrong? HELP!
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Angel four year old
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Why does he keep waking up?!
« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2005, 20:36:00 pm »
you're probably not doing much of anything wrong - it just takes awhile for them to learn it!!!

what happens is that you have helped him into deep sleep, and then 15-20 minutes later he is in light sleep & doesn't know how to go back down again. 

here are a couple links with more specifics for you:
http://www.babywhisperer.com/forum/pat-shush-for-babies-under-3-months-old-vt26672.html

this is long, but very descriptive & informative:
http://www.babywhisperer.com/forum/a-special-sleep-interview-with-tracy-hogg-vt451.html

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Why does he keep waking up?!
« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2005, 05:16:10 am »
The sleep interview tips really helped me.  Hang in there, it eventually works.  After a few weeks of consistency (and many hours by his crib), my little one eventually got the hang of it.