Cait takes a binky but only consistently for the last 4 weeks or so. It started when she "thought" she was still hungry, but yet, if I made more bottle she refused it. So, I gave her the binky to let her "suck" and then she would go right to sleep(this is usually the last feed at night). I can tell her "tired" cry and I usually pick her up, hold her and put the binky in and she goes to sleep. I have been trying to put her to bed more awake so that holding her to sleep doesn't become a habit, but I am afraid that monster is here already. I don't mind right now though. They are only this little for such a short time and this maybe my last. Most of the time, once Cait is asleep, the binky falls out or she has let go of the suction and I can take it out and put her to bed with no problems. Occasionally, she will wake in the night and cry and I will go put it back in, but more often than not, she WILL find her left hand and suck on her fingers. So she is a 80/20 baby where the fingers/binky are concerned.
Shush/pat didnt' work, but to be fair to the program, I didnt' try very long nor very hard. I don't have the patience for it, and I had a 3.5 yo running around negating all of the work I would accomplish. Another reason that I don't mind "holding her to sleep", I can control the enviroment around her easily and if she jars awake to a loud noise I can instantly put her back to sleep before she wakes too much.
Boy......after reading all of this, I AM the poster child for bad habits, aren't I?
? :shock: :shock: :oops: :cry: Oh well.....it works for our family and I am sure I wont' be holding her to sleep when she leaves for college.......we hope. :wink:
She does self soothe from time to time, she puts her fingers in her mouth and rolls up on her side and puts herself back to sleep. She has been doing that for about 4-6 weeks. This isnt' an everytime kind of thing though. I try to encourage it, but that is going to take some training on both of our parts.
I admire you. I know what you have going on is a LARGE undertaking, but you seem to be doing great. It does get better, you know this. It is probably a LOT of sleep deprivation that is making you forget. Keep up the great work and call on us anytime. :wink:
bj