Hi Meg,
Thanks for the reply, your thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
His routine (when all was well) was as follows:
7.30 wake, feed, play (I cannot extend it any longer as he gets overtired)
8.45 sleep
11.00 wake, feed, play
12.30 sleep
3pm wake, feed, play
5 pm sleep for 45 mins - 1 hour
6pm bath, feed, wind down
7pm bed for the night
9.30 dream feed
3.30 am feed only
His current pattern (as of the last 10 days) is as follows:
7.30 wake, feed, play
8.45 sleep
9.30 am wakes and I resettle him (usually takes about 20 - 30 mins)
11.15 wake, feed, play
12.45 sleep
1.30 wakes and I resettle him (again, takes about 20 - 30 mins)
2.10 sleep
3.00 wake, feed, play
5.00 sleep
6.00 bath, feed, wind down
7.00 bed for the night
9.30 dream feed
3.30 am feed only
If I don't resettle him (ie; when he wakes from his first two sleeps of the day), he eventually cries (after about 15 minutes of talking to himself) and will not self-settle. The need to have me there to resettle him is only as of the last 10 days as he use to self-settle and usually his day time sleeps would last anywhere from 2 - 3 hours. I've tried keeping him up longer but he gets very grizzly and is then difficult to settle.
Any ideas on how to overcome the need he seems to have for me to resettle him during the day would be great as it's taking longer and longer each time.
Sue