Waking a sleeping baby is annoying, but it's usually what I do even if the nap hasn't been that long. However, if I give a late/early feed a few times a week it doesn't harm much. It's the overall routine that is important. It was probably good to wake Parker at for the 4:00 feed so that bedtime doesn't get to late and he'll be hungry for all his evening feeds. Another rule of thumb I use is that I try to stay on rountine within a half an hour. So if you normally feed at 4:00, try not to feed earlier than 3:30 or later than 4:30. Another option would have been to feed Parker a little early and then put him down for a nap and hope he sleeps longer or until the next feeding. Hope that helps!