Sure that is part of it (DH seeing her) but my work schedule is a huge part of it.
Will keep working on the catnap and in the meantime can probably make the bedtime 7 instead of 7:30 - will that help? But today she finally just took catnap at 5:15 after MUCH struggle today. If she sleeps until 6:15, shouldn't I make bedtime LATER - say 8 or 8:15?
As for waking at 4am and feeding, I only hear her because I am a really light sleeper. She's not fully awake and doesn't cry out - I just hear her chewing on her hand and stirring. Wouldn't a feeding here only create a habit and wake her? Is wake to sleep at 6 am (or maybe 5:45) better in this case?
I do know how to do wake to sleep. However, catnap is generally in stroller or swing (she has always refused to take it in her crib, even though she sleeps wonderfully there other times). How would you do wake to sleep for the catnap in this case?
How long should the catnap be and at her age, what are ideal awake time ranges? Also, how much day time sleep in general is good or too much? If she naps too much earlier in day will she be unable to sleep for catnap, even if she is tired? And, how long should her night sleep ideally be (whether it's broken up or straight through) and how much day sleep at 14 weeks?
I'd say the fighting the catnap is a combination of being too tired but maybe also sleeped out? Plus right now she's teething like a madwoman and that doesn't help things...
BTW - Marisa is my daughter - my name is Karen
Thanks again Michelle. I really do appreciate it and really do want it to work for her. Just hard to do a bedtime any earlier than 7. Later is ideal, but I'll do 7 if that's what it takes.