Michelle, Thanks for replying so quickly.
"getting attention at night" - I've been trying to quit feeding her back to sleep when she wakes at night. PU/PD doesn't work for us, so my husband and I have been patting her back to sleep. It has been a LONG couple of weeks, as some nights she was waking 5 or 6 times, but now we are getting to the point where we can pat for a few min. and she will go back down. Sometimes she wakes after 20min and we have to start all over. We're trying to get to the point where we can leave the room when she is still awake.
"needing help to go down and stay down at naps" - We went through sleep training for naps about 3 months ago and she has been able to put herself to sleep and stay asleep for 1 hr. - 1.5 hours. About 3 days ago, she started waking at the 40 min. mark and I would go in and pat her (just like at night), and she'd go back to sleep. Today, she is waking at 20 min., then again at 30 min, and then won't go back to sleep!!!!! She also keeps checking to make sure that I am still there.
Bedtime - 7 or 7:30. Used to be earlier, but we have seen less night wakings if we put her to bed after 7. Don't know if this is a coincidence or not.
Awake - Usually for the day between 6 and 7 am.
Nap 1 - asleep about 2 hours after wake, so somewhere between 8 and 9 am. Will sleep anywhere from 1 hr. to 1.5 hours
Nap 2 - asleep about 2hours and 15 min. after wake from nap 1, so somewhere between 11:30 and 12:30. If nap 1 was short, this one is usually longer (but never over 1 hour 45 min.). If nap 1 was long, this one is usually shorter.
Nap 3 - asleep about 2 hours and 20 min. after last wake, so somewhere between 3:45 and 4:30. If other naps were short, this one can be an hour, but usually only 40 min. Sometimes, won't take at all and I rock her for 20 min or so. If this happens, bedtime gets moved up by about 1/2 hour.
I hope this is enough information. Thanks again for your help. She has been kind of clingy lately, so I don't know if this is some separation anxiety or what. It just seems that since we started the night work, that she is needing more help during the day. I'm not sure how to handle it.
Jessica