Hi!
I feel like I would like to lose my sanity, just for a while, so I could get some rest!!! I'm the mother to a 4 year old, 20 month old and 5 month old.
Everything went haywire when ds#2 either ithced from his eczema or started to teethe (can't remember!) and started to wake up during the night. At that point he was in his crib and was sleeping through the night and having his naps very well. ( That was @ 2 months ago. ) He would toss and turn in his crib and hit his head and feet against the crib (accidently). I though since ds#3 was growing out of his bassinet anyway that maybe the older one would sleep better in a twin sized bed.
So I layed down with him during his naps to get him accustomed to the new bed. This, I realize, is a big no-no! But keep in mind, I had a smaller baby who also needed his sleep and being quiet was key. He started to wake up during the night, which I thought was normal since we just started this thing and has been doing it ever since.
I would sleep with the kid until he was 5 if he would actually sleep! He tosses and turns and sometimes he's up for 2-3 hours before he finally passes out from exhaustion. I can't do this by myself, of course, especially since my 5 month old is in the lovely habit of waking up 3 times a night himself, so my husband is generally in charge of ds#2. Needless to say, neither of us have gotten any sleep in weeks and I'm at my wits end! I'm too tired during the day to even look at my kids and I feel I'm really missing out on special things they do everyday.
Can anyone help?
Thanks if you have any information or any sympathy.!!!
KV