hey there.... i needed contact as a baby, and sometimes still do.
i had a blanket with a soft edge and that was the only thing that put me to sleep, till my hair grew and then i left the blanket and turned to my hair.
its better than a pacifier or thumb in mouth. even now if i really want to sleep sometimes, i'll play with my hair, but that reaaly depends on my level of tiredness. :oops: i've been trying to get dd to take to something soft as she won't take a pacifier and despite what everyone says i don't like the idea of her sucking her thumb, but she's still so young, she won't grasp...(7 weeks), HTH and good luck