Hi
My DS Zander is 12 weeks old and is a great night sleeper (with the exception of last night - we think he has a little cold :cry: ). This week we have taken his dummy away and we're going really well with pat/shush which seems to work for him all of a sudden. Of course my problem now is the consistent 40-45 minute naps. He can also only seem to take an hour of wake-up time before he's cranky and desperate for sleep. I read the thread about how Tracy helped Josie and it sounded very familiar so this afternoon I've given it a go - when he got cranky after an hour of being awake I took him upstairs and gave him a feed, read to him for a bit, sang him a song (why oh why can I only think of Christmas carols at the moment!!) and we made it to an hour and a half before I swaddled him and put him in his bed. I then pat/shushed a bit and stayed with him until he'd passed the 20 minute jolt. I went back in just before 40 minutes and sure enough he jolted and screamed and seemed like he was going to wake up but I was able to pat/shush him back to sleep and left him after 5-10 minutes. So, a pretty good start but I have some questions;
I'm breastfeeding - how long is a 'light' feed, bearing in mind these are extra feeds in addition to his 3 hourly feeds? (I think 3 hours is still right for him, too early for a 4 hour routine).
How long should I stay with him if I'm able to rescue him at the 40 minute mark? I left when he seemed settled but I was worried it was a little early and that he would wake again - so far so good though and he's had an hour and 10 minutes
Why do I have to stay with him for 20 minutes for pat/shushing him to sleep, rescue his nap at 40 minutes but I don't need to go back in 20 minutes later when he's napped for an hour? I did hear him make a sound on the monitor at the one hour point but he's still asleep.
Does anybody have any experience of when good sleeping habits in the baby's own bed transfer to the pram / car seat when you're out? Like some of the others on this board I feel I'm destined to stay in the house with my LO as I can't deal with him when he's screaming his head off because he's tired and we're not at home (not without the dummy anyway and we've just got rid of that!).
Thanks
Kelly x
Mum to Zander James Textbook (with a little Touchy) baby!