Hello, sorry I haven't replied sooner, but it's been a hectic w/end! How are things going for you?
I've had a look at your schedule, and I just want to say that, for 12 weeks, you're doing really well (certainly better than I was!). To get him sleeping for that long overnight is great, and you're doing well getting him into a feeding routine. Have you tried the not jumping in to intervene yet? Did it work?
I'd like to direct you to read the Announcements at the top of this Naps forum, and specifically, the ones titled
Teaching Sleep to Newborns and Young Infants and
Teaching 3-5mos - to overcome the 45min naps to try to extend the 45 min naps, b/c it sounds like your lo may be overtired when it comes to bedtime. If he can be more rested in the daytime, bedtime may become a more relaxed affair
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I also want to stress the importance of a bedtime routine. Now, you know your lo best, so you are best able to come up with the best routine for him. If you feel a bath is too stimulating for him (and it was for my lo at this age - we implemented this when he was a little older), then try something else, maybe go to his room an hour before, with the lights on low, have a story, bottle, a song, cuddle, etc. This takes a few nights to work, but it lets him know it's bedtime, and he's much more likely to be relaxed when he knows what's happening.
I hope that helps, and any more problems, you know where we are!
Caroline xx