Rowan is 8 months and one week-old. I just can not seem to get him on a feeding schedule anymore. We started a 4hour schedule at 4 months of age and then by 6 months he was eating solids 3x a day and still doing fine on a 4-hr schedule (breastfeeding 5x a day with one nightfeed).
We have slowly digressed into him not being interested in the breast at the 4-hr. mark. There are times when at the 5-hr. mark he will eat from one side and then not want to nurse the other. I'm always offering the breast (or sometimes the bottle) first and follow with solids 30 min to an hour later.
Here is a typical day for us:
Wake at 7 a.m.-ish - BF (though if he's had a 3 or 4 a.m. feed, he's not starving)
Cereal/fruit or waffle at 8:30 a.m.
Nap around 9:30 a.m.
Attempt a BF at 11 a.m.-ish
Lunch at noon
Nap around 2:00 p.m.
Attempt a BF around 4:00 p.m.
Dinner at 6:00 p.m.
Bath, BF, bed at 7:00 p.m.-ish
So, that's 4 breastfeeds a day but maybe we get two good ones and two mediocre.
What further complicates things are his nightwakings and different wake-up times. I do try to do his first BF of the day the same time everyday, despite when he wakes up.
Also, ds#1 goes to nursery school 2x a week, so those mornings are a rush to get out the door and BF and breakfast is sometimes out of whack.
It seems like Rowan would rather play, watch his big brother, practice crawling, contemplate his toes, ANYTHING but breastfeed. This has been going on for a few months, and it's starting to stress me out because I just can't get him to eat like he should and I'm losing the desire to keep trying with the breastfeeding. I made it to one year with ds#1, but I'm constantly thinking of dropping the daytime breastfeeds and replace with bottles of formula (keeping the a.m and bedtime breastfeeding).
Not sure what I'm asking, but I'm doing something wrong--help! :lol: I looked at the sample EASY schedules and most babies his age are still doing 4 breastfeeds or bottle and solids 3x a day.
Tru & Rowan's Mommy