Hi there,
first, thanks mommyof2boys and luisasmom for chiming in. And congrats ittybittyone on the birth of your son.
I too read Babywise while I was pregnant and the schedule and all sounded great, but then in reality all wasn't so easy! I found the book lacked a lot of guidance and help on what to do when things actually don't fall into place and you are having a hard time getting your lo to sleep independently. I found Baby Whisperer much more helpful, insightful and more importantly gentle.
While you are waiting for the book to come, I would suggest reading the Sleep Interview with Tracy at the top of the forum. Also, in the General Sleep Issues forum there is a post from Theo's mom at the top titled pat/shush for babies younger than 3 months old and PU/PD for babies 3 months and older. These are 2 of Tracy's main methods for teaching lo's to fall asleep independently. I wouldn't recommend starting the methods though until you have had time to read at least some of the book and devise a plan of some sort.
The things you may find most helpful about Tracy's methods are:
1. the emphasis on a routine, not so much a schedule, of Eat, Activity and the Sleep. This helps your lo know what to expect next since babies thrive best when things are predictable for them
2. The routine helps you better predict his needs. If he has already eaten and played, perhaps he is getting fussy because he is ready for a nap, for example.
3. Learnign to read your babies cues
4. Teaching your baby to sleep independently without the use of Cry It Out.
Is your baby currently on any sort of routine? If so, please list it and we will see if we can get started.
Thanks! Andrea