Hi there,
I am a first time Mom and have a little boy Tadhg who is just 17 weeks old.
He is definitely a spirited baby. He is such a nosey parker and can't stop looking around to see what's going on, and is convinced that if he closes his eyes, or stops turning around he will surely miss something. His arms and legs are always on the go.. including his head, so he has to be swaddled to go to sleep, both nap time and night time. ( I've finally managed to figure out how to dodge the headbuts, but the left hook catches me unawares sometimes
My main problem is that I can't seem to increase his nap's from a 35 minute cycle.
I've tried the pat/shh with only limited success for the past week. Because he has such a short sleep cycle, if I stay with him for 20 minutes, I never know for sure if he's had a proper sleep as he wakes up again in 10 minutes. Sometimes I've stayed with him for over 1 hour, but he keeps waking himself up ever 5 to 10 minutes.
I try to let him be as much as possible and only step in when he starts to cry but that just seems to prolong his awake time. The few times I've managed to get him back to sleep it's been over 1 hour since he first woke up... which makes me think he would have gone down for a nap anyway, if he had been up an about. :?
The first 2 naps of the day, are ok, in that he is happy and babbling away with lots of smiles. However by mid after noon he wakes up cyring, which escalates to a screaming fit that can last hours, right through until feeding time at the 4 hr mark.
Here one of two things happen, on feeding:
1. He falls asleep from my warm body and from exhaustion
2. He gets second wind and is abuzz and smiley for another 1 or so.
If I get him up any time before this, he calms himself down in about 5 or 10 minutes and is abuzz for another hour or so, and the cycle starts again. ( I used to have to feed him to calm him down, but now any form of distraction works :?)
I have to admit that I have made great progress wtih getting him to sleep and if I manage to catch him in time and wind him down nicely he falls asleep almost immediately and with no intervention. Other times he nees a paci and some patting for a few minutes.
His schedule works out something like EASASE. The times are all over the place though, as he never wakes up at the same time every day. However I always end the day with a bath and small massage followed by a feed and some quiet time before bed. This has worked a treat since I first tried it.
So now I need to increase his nap time.
I 've been reading about the wake to sleep method and am wondering if I should try this with such a spirited baby. He wakes so easily, and I mean wide eyed with his head swiveling around to see what's going on.
If anyone has any pointers or suggestions I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks
Jackie