Thanks everyone for the continued support and reassurance to keep going. It has paid off ... he is finally getting the message. He still sometimes wakens after 30 mins or so but most times I can get him back to sleep and at least one of his naps per day is an hour and a half pretty much straight through without any problems .... so the other nap I'm sure will come together in time.
Just one question now really! Today is day 7 of following Tracy's routine exactly (Up at 7am & bottle, solids at 8am, nap at 9am, bottle at 11am, solids at 12noon, nap at 1pm, bottle at 3pm, catnap at 5pm, solids at 5.30/5.45pm, bath, bottle at 7pm, bed at 7.30pm) ..... do I continue to follow this routine or should I know take my cues from the baby?
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For example .... DS is actually waking up around 6.15am but is happy to coo in the cot. Most times he falls back asleep by around 6.45 or 6.50 and I have to wake him at 7am. SO ..... technically he is up 2 hours at 8.15(ish) and so if I was following his cues I would probably be putting him down a little earlier than 9am.
Any advice on how to proceed now that I have broken the back of extending his naps would be very much appreciated.
I can't believe what a much more contented and happy baby he is. Thank you to all those who helped me persevere.