Hello to you all (again),
I find I give little on this wonderful message forum but ask for lots!!
Well here goes..........
.......since my DD was poorly (she is now fully recovered) she has been a nightmare to settle (mainly night-time). I generally put her down with the same routine:
7.00 - dinner
7.30 - dvd
8.00 - milk
8.30 - bed (she usually then does poo-poo in her nappy so change nappy, snuggle down again and usually settled by 9.00/9.30)
Seeing as she was poorly and we were travelling in the UK her routine was completely off (anche she was still on GM time) so we have been trying to get her back into it by putting her bed-time a little earlier every evening.
She just won't settle. I put her down and she says "Mummy, come" so I explain to her that Mummy is not going anywhere and that I am only in another room and I tell her that she has to sleep all night otherwise she won't get a sticker in the morning, etc, etc. And I leave the room. She starts again - "Mummy, muuuummy, MUMMMMMMY" :shock: :shock: (and sometimes Daddy gets the full works too :shock: ) I find I have to go into her about 3, 4 5 times and she just does not want to let go. In the end I find myself shouting at her :oops:
as I am at my wits end and she just won't take smooth, gentle talking. Yesterday we had such a good evening together and all was hunkey-dorey untill she started playing up again.
At the moment I'm wading through 2 books to find a solution - 'The BW Solves All your problems' and 'Toddler Taming' by Dr. Christopher Green.
Please, please any comments would be welcome
Thanks to all if you got this far through my loooong request/vent.
Sinead