Hi
I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face which is ridiculous as my little boy is sitting in his bouncy chair looking perfectly content - he obviously hasn't read the BW books so doesn't realise he's supposed to still be asleep!
Could somebody please help me to figure out where we are as I seriously feel like carrying him round in a baby sling all day or something, anything other than these naps which just make me cry!
Zander woke at 5am this morning - he's done it for the last couple of days but used to sleep until 6-7am. This morning he was a very hungry boy and fed for 40 minutes (usual feeds for about 15 minutes). He went back down ok but only slept for one sleep cycle so we were up again at 7am. I wasn't sure whether I should try and feed him bearing in mind he'd eaten so recently but I gave it ago and he only had 5 minutes worth - I know this part isn't about naps but now I don't even know when he's due his next feed!
He started yawning at around 8am - an hour is usually his limit in the mornings. We led in bed for a bit and I sang him a lullaby, then swaddled him and put him down in his crib at which point he immediately started screaming. I spent 15 minutes doing pat/shush and PU/PD but he didn't even seem to be trying to go to sleep. So I got him up again and we sat on the bed for a while longer. He continued to yawn and fuss and I tried to put him down another time but the same thing happened. Finally at 8.45 I put him down in his crib and he went to sleep totally independently with no fussing. What's that all about? I know Tracy says that some time during the fourth month a window opens up and they can stay awake for much longer, but does this happen overnight? He was yawning after an hour and we don't usually have time for much of a wind-down after the first yawn, do you think he needs a much longer wind-down now? Anyway, he was asleep and I was happy!
I went in after 30 minutes to do Wake to Sleep by stroking his cheek (been trying for 3 or 4 weeks now and has worked maybe 2 or 3 times!) but the same thing happened that has happened alot lately - I went in and he was already half awake! So, me going into his room (with the creaky floorboards!) just wakes him up fully. He's not even getting to 40 minutes let alone beyond it. I went in at 30 because I wondered whether going in at 35 was too late because he'd been awake already so often recently. He has extended a couple of sleeps himself lately - but always the catnap!!
Please help me - it's so silly that I cry just because my little boy is waking up before I think he should. Maybe I should forget about the Wake to Sleep?
Thanks
Kelly x