First let me answer the set awake time question-I personally know that it has been crucial to us setting a good routine with Taylor. Yes it can be very painful, and still can be some days :roll:
, to go in and wake a sleeping baby when you yourself can be snoozing as well. But what I have found is on the days that i let her sleep in, it just ends up being a rougher day because she fights her first nap for 30 minutes then goes down late and only sleeps 45 minutes, which throws us off the rest of the day! You get my point! :lol: So, unless she is sick or had shots (like your ds) or had a horrendous night for some reason, the latest I ever let her sleep is 7:30.
For a few days you may want to try doing a 7am wake up and see how it goes. After a week or two when you are in a good rythym you can test the waters and push it to 7:15 or even 7:30 when you're feeling lucky!
For your second question, I got a little confused readign through the paragraph to see what kind of nap schedule he is on. Would you mind posting it out in order for his whole day?
What I kind of gathered is that some days he will take a couple of short naps but then take a long one, and that some days the order of the long/short naps change. Is this correct?
I do remember Taylor at 4-5 months of age doing this. Some days she would have a super long am nap, then a shorter pm nap and then a 1.5 hour "catnap"! Other days it would be reversed. I guess I could have really tried to figure it out and get it working "perfectly", btu at that point I was just so happy she was sleeping longer than 45 minutes every day I wasn't going to overlook my blessings! :lol:
Is ds taking 45 minute naps everyday or are they sporadic?
ANd yes, if he is doing 12 hours at night, then 3 hours of day sleep is great. Sorry I haven't helped much with question #2, but if you could break it down for me a little more I can give it a go!
thanks!