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March/April '05 Thread #4
« Reply #165 on: January 04, 2006, 03:15:53 am »
Thanks for the encouragement Michelle, I just think about Makaylee looking up at me crying like "why wont you just carry me around all day mommy?" then looking at the other leg and Maisie looking at me going "yah mommy just pick us up"  :cry:  :cry:  :cry: Breaks my heart....
Spied on your reply to Judy too  :oops:  (sorry) about the wind down for naps, I do the same thing as both of you... it's almost now like "okay cut the crap, go have a nap".. they will listen to a story still somedays though...
Hope your night goes well, congrats on Molly's first big day at daycare! I cant remember are you going back full time on the 11th or p/t?

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March/April '05 Thread #4
« Reply #166 on: January 04, 2006, 03:27:48 am »
Thanks Kate, must have posted at the same time! I sure hope tonight.. ahh heck Im not going to jinx it...
But it is nice to know we are all somewhat in the same boat...
I think Im going to go drown my sorrows in some Oprah. (got the 20th anniversary DVD for Christmas... EXCELLENT!! Oprah- pure Oprah. only the good stuff, no crap, no commercials, and Dr. Phil in the early days with BADDDDD teeth (no more hair then though))

he he he

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« Reply #167 on: January 04, 2006, 04:29:01 am »
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I feel awful at how mad I was at them and how I just didn't even want to look at them.
Jody-OMG that was me the other day!  I got so mad I just couldn't even deal with myself.  I felt so sad afterwards for being upset with her.  I hope you knwo that you are in NO WAY alone in feeling like this.  I think we are all going through a rough time right now and I for one am thankful I have others to share my feelings with.

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Tracy said the biggest thing for babies 7-9 months is that the routine is basically a guessing game. Each day is different and it's important to just go with the flow at that point.
Nancy-thanks for pointing this out because I did not remember this at all.  I will go back and read through this section and hopefully get a pick me up!  :)

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(I swear, this is like Junior High all over again when all the girls get their periods at the same time!   )
That is hilarious Kate!

BTW, Naomi, tahnsk for checking in on Storm Watch 2006 here in Southern California!  I swear you know you live in LaLa Land when it rains a bit and our local news makes a huge dramatic production about it!  The rest of the country must think we are a bunch of sissies!!!  Thanks for the concern though adn we are doing well. 
Regarding DH and the food, do you think he would notice if you threw all the junk food out and said it was your new years resolution?  Then maybe he'd catch on and want to join you?

Judy, thanks for the words of wisdom.  When you first posted and asked if I wanted your take on the matter, and then ended your post, I was like "NO, COME BACK!!!  I DO WANT YOUR TAKE ON THE MATTER!"  You crack me up!   :lol:   How are you feeling btw?

Diaper Rash-how about A&D ZINC OXIDE cream?  It works wonders for miss T.

And Taylor also takes PoliViSol since she was 6 months old.  I started giving it to her in her cereal but she gagged on it.  Now I just give it to her in one fell shot and she sucks it down.   :lol:

 :arrow: So Bad Mommy confession.  For all my bitching and whining, I failed to mention that my little girl has learned 3 things in the last week:
1. to sit herself up on her own
2. to crawl for real (no commando crawling anymore)
3. to pull herself up to a standing position
Yay for Taylor, the little $hit!  Just Kidding of course!  I love her to pieces even when she kills me!   :lol:  :lol:

Michelle, glad daycare went well.  I think you did the right thing by starting her a little early to get her adjusted.  What do you do for a living?

Traci-GOOOOOOD Luck tonight!!!
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« Reply #168 on: January 04, 2006, 06:09:14 am »
hi girls!!

Andrea: Yeah for Taylor!!  So many new milestones!!  :shock:

Jody: Don't beat yourself up over feeling like a bad mommy!  We have all been there!!!!!!!  And I (I better not speak for everyone) have definitely had those days where I just want to lock myself in the bathroom with the fan on so that I don't have to listen, entertain, feed, change, etc....anything to do with Jack.  And pretend I'm at the spa....ahhhh.....how I can dream.... :roll:  (insert heavy sigh emoticon)  We need to meet up just so that we can feel "adult-ish" again!  :wink:  :D

Roz: I kept meaning to ask if Sol is bathing again yet?? (insert holding nose emoticon if he's not!  :lol:  :wink: )

Traci: good luck tonight...and yeah...Jack is doing better!  Thanks for asking.  I think it was his reflux that caused him to start crying which in turn caused him to puke.....it was his "in pain" cry....i just didn't put two and two together.  His puke in the airport was more like "BLAHHH.....oops where did that come from" kindof puke.  If I'm not posting it's because I don't want to jinx myself!  :wink:   I'm on this darn board a million times a day trying to keep up and also (who am I kidding  :roll: ) to see if anyone else has posted!  :lol:

I had to post a couple pics of us in California....one is of Jack at his early one year luau and the other is of us at the beach dipping his feet in the ocean!  :D

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« Reply #169 on: January 04, 2006, 07:08:40 am »
Micky those photos are sooooooo cute! I love the luau one.

Jody, it must be doubly hard having 2 unhappy babies, it's hard enough with 1 every so often. So you have every right to feel unhappy, grumpy or whatever you need to feel to help you get thru it. Just come on here to vent and hopefully that will help.

Kate, I love the high school comment. Funny thing I was talking to a friend thismorning and she was saying how her LO was a bit 'off' for the last couple of days. I said Daniel was the same, so maybe there's just something in the air right now. And maybe it's an international thing!  :wink:

Andrea, that's great news on what Taylor's been up to. Does anyone else notice how much they are learning/changing/developing at the moment?? All just happening so fast.

Traci good to hear Cole's awake time is nearly sorted. I'm sure you'll figure out the night time sleep soon. FWIW, we generally put Daniel down at the same time even though he's now awake for a shorter period in the afternoon since his nap changed. Does that make sense? He used to be awake from 2.30pm - 7pm. Now due to not having his afternoon nap until 2.30 - 4pm He's only awake 4pm - 7pm. It hasn't changed his night sleep at all. Sometimes just takes a little longer for him to wind down in his cot. He just rolls and sucks his sheets!  :D

Ok, another food question for you all, does anyone else have a LO who cries at the end of eating?? :? At breakfast he will just shake his head, but mostly when he's had enough lunch and dinner he'll shake his head then immediately starting crying like he's really upset. tonight after eating a reasonable amount of my cooking (yay) he cried lots, I went off to get his facecloth and he sort of quietened down, so I tried him on some nectarine and he liked it and kept eating. Then he ate 1/2 a tin of custard. So he was still hungry/happy to eat, but was crying. It's so strange.

Sorry to be writing so much lately, just having food issues and you girls are soooo helpful you're the best people I can turn to. Thank you.
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« Reply #170 on: January 04, 2006, 07:19:06 am »
Micky, love the pics.

Andrea, yay on Taylor's achievements!

Hayley, I've found the same with later naps and bedtime - bedtime's still the same.  Do you offer water when he cries?  I know the few times that Danielle's done that it's been because she's thirsty.  Maybe he could just have had enough of that type of flavour/food etc and the fruit is more refreshing? 

I've also noticed the speed in which Danielle is developing (and it's everything - movement, skill, intelligence, verbally, personality), I remember thinking before having D that 9mths was my fav age with Nathan, now I remember why. :D

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« Reply #171 on: January 04, 2006, 09:09:18 am »
Hi Everyone

So I'd better finally give my update right  :lol:

The beach was great.  Will try to post a pic or two once we upload them from the camera.  Fraser loved the sand and loved swimming - we were at a beach with no waves so it was lovely and calm.  The water was warm, there were few people around.  Ah, heaven! 

All the swimming and activity had Fraser exhausted.  Day time naps were good, and nights were no different to at home (generally 2 feeds and assorted other random wakings).  Morning wake up got earlier and earlier towards the end of the week but seem to be coming good (fingers crossed) since we have come home. 

I have to completely agree with Nikki though - I am loving this age.  We are having so much fun with Fraser (with some exceptions like today with tooth #3 having popped through yesterday so some bad naps and cranky pants).  He is a delightful little person and I am loving watching him learn and explore and develop.

So the mod thing - I have offered to help out on the nightwakings board.  Are you shocked  :shock:  :lol:   OK, so we haven't had a lot of success but boy, do I bring with me some EXPERIENCE!!  I've also done a lot of reading and investigated a lot of options and I've had the benefit of wisdom from some very wise Mummy's and I thought that I could share some of that with others who might be struggling too.  Plus I can offer a really big "I'm hearing you, I've been there, done that, wearing the t-shirt" (that's for you Ankie, where are you Ankie??)

And also:

Micky - loving those pics - what a cutie!!
Andrea - big HUGS to you.  The only thing I want to add is that Fraser's routine went out the window (to a point) while we were on holiday (meaning nap times were different, bed times were different, naps were missed here and there etc etc).  He started out coping brilliantly for the first couple of days, just like you saw with T.  But by the end of the week he was really struggling and the wheels had started to fall off our wagon.  So the week taught me flexibility but also that F is thriving because of the structure in our day.  HTH just a little.  Oh, and yay!  How clever is your girl!!
Hayley - don't know if you remember any of my previous posts but we have a super fussy eater here too.  He will scoff jarred food any day of the week and turns his nose up at my homemade stuff (guess we'd better get used to that huh  :wink: )  Fraser really didn't like textured food either - we really only give finger food (he is so independent and stubborn, wonder where he get's that from  :?:  :oops:  where's the tongue in cheek emoticon!!) and purees.  He is also a fruit fiend and not a big vege fan.  Things are slowly getting easier as he gets better at feeding himself (although meals take HOURS!)
Jody - you get some HUGS too!  Two grumpy babies!  I tell ya, I know how frustrating those days can be.  We are fortunate to be having less and less of them.  I can only imagine if you are used to happy smiley girls those days must hit you like a ton of bricks!  Hope tommorow brings you lots of cuddles and smiles.
Michelle - more HUGS - I just got a phone call today that I have a spot for Fraser for childcare.  Mixed blessings - I will no longer have to work from home which is great because that is really HARD and I get nothing done and then have to work into the evenings and weekends but horrible because up until now it has only been DH or I caring for him.  Trying not to give it too much thought for now.  I know that it will be long term good but you know, no one can love these LO's like we do right.  I'll need your shoulder in a few weeks when F starts but in the meantime, feel free to share mine. 

OK that's as far back as the screen will take me.  Big hugs to everyone else who needs them.

Take care all and chat soon
Jo

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« Reply #172 on: January 04, 2006, 12:35:50 pm »
Micky - awesome pictures!!!

Jo - soooooooo nice to hear from you.  Glad your time at the beach went so well.  Good for you (and others too) volunteering to moderate!! :)

Who asked about lo's getting fussy at end of solids feeding? Hayley that's right.  Ok, um, yes... I don't have always happy babies here :) so feeding time is usually FULL of fussing.  Finger foods helps for a few minutes.  I sometimes end up having to hold and feed one little lady.  Once they decide they are hungry and really want to eat then they fuss between bites because 1. bites aren't coming fast enough and 2. I fed their sister in between (heeeey!!!  I wanted that!! ;))  (awww they're on my lap right now facing the computer and Kaia is pulling Hannah over to her - by the ear :( - and giving her kisses.  Hannah doesn't seem to mind the ear pulling so much :))  Anyway I figure meal is done once they won't open for more bites.  And often if I just take the tray off their chairs they're happy for a bit.  (problem being if I walk away because Sarah , that monkey, will unbuckle them!!  Hannah's chair has a T-bar on it so she's relatively safe from falling out but Kaia's is right open. :shock:  I heard Sarah last night say "there you go unbuckled" thank goodness and ran over and buckled them back in (and gave her a bit of he!!)

Jody - Two fussy babies for a day is purely exhausting.  Heck one fussy baby for a day is exhausting.  And frustrating.  I find sleep times hold such a HUGE investment for us especially on rough days.  You feel like a bit of freedom is coming your way, a few moments of quiet and then when it doesn't happen it is very hard to not be angry or frustrated.   Heck just the other day Hannah was SO tired at nap time but would not stop screaming so I brought her out so Kaia could sleep but said to her "what the heck is your problem?  I took you both in there because YOU were tired!!"  then thought to myself "what kind of mother rants at an 8month old?"  Chris was out with the older two and I reeeaaaaallly wanted some alone time.  Anyway I felt like a sh!t and then she fell asleep in my arms. :)

Oh and how do you read to two?  I can't get these two to sit still and stop trying to eat the book and with two on my lap I just can't keep it all together so they rarely get books.

Ok I gotta go... Hannah's tired of having her ear pulled AND she's trying to type - someone's gonna fall soooon.....

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« Reply #173 on: January 04, 2006, 13:13:43 pm »
LOL I am trying to picture you and the girls right now! 

As for reading I know it is just one but I give Sophie a book to chew on while I read the second one!
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« Reply #174 on: January 04, 2006, 14:30:44 pm »
Thanks you soooo much everyone... I know I am not the only one who gets stresses and needs to b!itch, and it feels good to know you "know"!
I had the girls bathed, fed and in bed at 645 last night- I was going to make the day as short as possible, well it was a crap bath time, but a great night. They are getting pretty consistent with sleeping through, feels good. I knew it was going to be a better day when they woke "talking" not crying this morning... and the morning has already been more pleasent!

Micky- Jack is just so damn beautiful (can you say that about a little man?) Looks like a fun trip!

Judy- The girls pull the books as I read but it just shows interest- and Im bigger so I always win! They chew on the small books, but I dont let them get a hold of the big "robert munch" books...

Heres to a better day today and no more crying from me!!!! I think I have a sense of relief knowing Sean is now on his days off for 4 days... AHHHH help!!! (thats a relief "ahhhhhhh")


OH and a funny moment this morning... You know your hungry when you heat up the baby cereal and the smell makes your tummy grumble!!! Guess I should have made me some supper last night!!! He he he

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« Reply #175 on: January 04, 2006, 15:05:10 pm »
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what kind of mother rants at an 8month old?"
*raising my hand*  :oops:   - Yup, done that before, and wished I could lock myself in the bathroom as well (that's for you Micky) - though my personal favorite is when she doesn't sleep and is later cranky - telling her "well if you had only slept earlier you would be happier now - like that really works...

Jody - (((hugs))) to you - glad today sounds better -  I have the same morning experience with Katie - if she wakes crying, I know we're in for it.

Jo - glad you had a nice time - with all your experience, I would certainly expect you to give wonderful advice on the nightwakings board.  I'm sure Frase will do wonderfully in day care - maybe he'll be so tired from all the extra stimulation he'll sleep - well, you can always hope, right?

Micky - your pictures are gorgeous - have to get my act together and post some more recent ones of Katie sometime soon.

Andrea - WOW for Taylor - and you wonder why she's not sleeping as well  :wink:  - I would guess that's part of your answer right there.  Katie has been commando crawling for almost 3 months now - I'm beginning to wonder if she'll ever crawl the "right" way - at least it's pretty entertaining. 

Michelle - glad to hear Molly's first day went well.  Katie still does not sleep particularly well in day care, but she seems to cope pretty well on those days.  I'm guessing because Molly will be there every day, she'll probably adjust more completely than Katie has. 

Anyway, I had some crazy dreams last night about putting Katie to bed and then finding her crawling into our TV room a few minutes later (as in climbing out of her crib, opening her door, opening the gate, crawling down the stairs, down the hallway, and into the TV room!) - I wonder what that means?  She really wants to stand up these days, but hasn't quite figured out how to pull herself up yet.  The sun is actually out here today, though I'm sure it's still pretty cold, so maybe we'll venture out for a walk...it's been way too long!

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« Reply #176 on: January 04, 2006, 15:29:34 pm »
Hey girls,

Gotta type fast as I'm thinking a 45 min. nap will end any moment now.

After getting Cole down after 12 min. of pupd he woke after 45 min, 2 hours, then again around 11:30.  DH took this one and held his hand for 45 min. :twisted:  I told him from now on to come get me.  He woke again around 1:30 and 4:30 and I confess to feeding.  I know that that is at the opposite end of consistency but for some reason his cry just seemed that much louder last night.
This morning I tried putting him down at 9:20 which was 3 hours A and he fought so i brought him out for 5 min and he went down at 9:30 like a charm.

Hayley-thank you soooooooooo much for the post about Daniel now going 4-7 as opposed to 2:30-7.  That is VERY helpful.  I think I'll put Cole down at 6:30 for a few nights and see how we get on.  Given his early bedtime previously it only makes sense.
As for food here...Cole will scoff purees all day long.  Gave him a slice of banana yesterday and he gagged.  I'm slowly doing chunkier stuff, mashed a pear yesterday instead of pureeing etc.  Still haven't given the kid much variety.  I'm afraid he's turning orange from all the squash!  He doesn't usually cry at all though so i'm lucky there.

Michelle-Yay for you and Molly!  I think this is where all our BWing pays off.  Even in new environments our los will adapt well.  We meet our daycare provider for the first time this saturday!  I cannot wait.  She sounds so wonderful on the phone.  I don't go back until end of April though.

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Nancy-thanks for pointing this out because I did not remember this at all. I will go back and read through this section and hopefully get a pick me up!
OMG-I must have missed this post by nancy...what page, please tell me what page.  I also need a pick me up!

Andrea-yay for Taylor!  Those are some HUGE milestones.  How exciting.  I too forgot to mention one...will do so at the end.

Micky-i LOVE those pics.  What wonderful memories.  I can't wait to get a toothy shot of Cole like that :D

Jo-Got your card yesterday. What a lovely note.  Makes me think again that I should have taken more time with my cards and sent them late. oh well.  Thanks for the update on your vacation.  It sounds lovely.  And I so hear you on the "been there, done that" about moderating.  However, my memory is terrible so I find I'm struggling a bit on the nap board.  I do remember though that I was just so thankful that someone was listening/there for me when I was starting BW that I hope I help at least in that sense.

Judy-Any chance you could read to them with the book on the floor?  I find Cole doesn't try to eat the book as much that way.  I'm a little disappointed as some of our favourites are going to need replacing soon due to bent/cracked/sucked on pages.  Oh well...at least they are well loved. 

That makes me think of a little girl my friend told me about (her cousin's daughter).  Her mother has always spoken to her like an adult.  Her lovey is one of those bunny things and it ended up being basically a nose with a ratty blankie attached.  People would comment on it and her mom told her what to say, so when my friend visited the lo told her "my bunny is well loved"  LOL (i think she was 2 and a half at the time)

I forgot to mention that while fighting nap yesterday Cole stood up and GOT DOWN several times...so I know that's not a problem.  Maybe I just need to do the count to 100 thing.  I still think he needs me to go to him though.  I think the trick is to make it so he doesn't wake and then won't be standing :wink:

Okay-our little milestone.  For a while I've been trying to show Cole how to go down the stairs.  I'll drag his legs down and he'll basically giggle while I do it.  I noticed yesterday that he got extra close to the top of the two steps by the LR.  So I asked "do you want help getting down?"  He sat up, I pulled his legs down onto the step and he went the rest of the way on his own.  So he had to lean down, put his hands on the step, put his legs onto the floor and get down from their!  YAY!

PHEW-can you tell I miss you girls :D  I called my internet co. yesterday and he couldn't help me because we have a third party wireless router.  Anyway, he suggested getting a longer ethernet cable...so instead I just dragged the router across the room in our bedroom so it is closer to the pc in the office and voila!  I have internet :D

okay, must go pay bills etc and do all the stuff I couldn't do yesterday.  Cole is going on 1 hour!  yay.

I think I'll allow 2 1.5 hour naps if I can get them to see if it improves his night sleep.  Clearly all other combos of naps aren't working so far :wink:

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« Reply #177 on: January 04, 2006, 15:32:24 pm »
Jody-read your post lat night about HOMO milk but DH was impatient to get on.  Maybe I'll ask my ped again.  Cole doesn't eat anything of ours yet so I guess it wouldn't be such a good idea.  Thanks
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« Reply #178 on: January 04, 2006, 16:06:11 pm »
Hey guys. Great news...after Molly's not sleeping much at daycare yesterday I was all geared up for a fitful night...she slept all night!! Wooooooo wooooooo! She woke at her usual 5 am and fussed and talked to herself, then straight back to sleep until the usual 6:30 am. I was so proud!  :lol:

Jody - I go back full time on the 11th. I really do like my job, just all the politics of working for a Union that is crappy! Funny about "cut the crap, go have a nap" that's exactly what my brain is thinking when it's nap time. LMAO!! How is the Oprah DVD set anyways?? I have been eyeing it up myself...

Kate - Yes, just like Junior High for sure!! And thank god (as Andrea said) we do have someone (alot of awesome someone's here) to share all the good and bad times with. I would be lost without all my "girls" here.

Andrea - Yaaaaaaaay for Taylor!! What a gal...crawling and pulling herself up?!! Yikes, you are in for some running after her soon!  BTW, I am a secretary, I work for a Union in Edmonton. We are the largest Union in Alberta and have about 65,000 members. It is a great job, I've been there for almost 15 years and have seen alot of changes over the years. The people are mostly fun to work with but as I said above, the politics that go on behind closed doors are unbelievable!!  Oh well, every job has it's good and bad that's for sure. I get paid very well, have awesome benefits, 5 weeks vacation a year and a pretty laid back atmosphere (don't have to get all dressed up to go to work) so I'm pretty content there.

Micky - LMAO at you locking yourself in the bathroom and pretending you are at the spa!! I say you, Jody and I should book a day at the spa...no more pretending!!!   Love the pic of Jack with the "halo" on his head. What a smiley cutie patootie!!

Jo - thanks for the hugs and shoulder to cry on!! I'll be here when you need mine. Congrats on the Mod assignment you brave, brave girl!

Judy - I'm the kind of mother that rants at an 8 month old, yes, yes, I am!! Been there, done that, felt stupid. LOL

Traci - Yay to Cole for getting back down from standing in his crib AND for crawling down the steps. My gosh what a thrill seeker!! LMAO!!
~Michelle (Spruce Grove, AB, Canada)

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March/April '05 Thread #4
« Reply #179 on: January 04, 2006, 17:13:27 pm »
Good morning afternoon night to you all.  Might as well add in my post holiday blues...!!!!  Crying all morning yesterday that I had to get back into the old routine.  Made it through the day.  I think I was having a tough time with DH going back to work even though he is a messy man like so many of your Dhs.  He once told me that when I complain about picking up after him he feels like a little kid   hmnmm!
Andrea-I am going through a tough time dealing with not having a real out of the house job.  I know that being a mom is a super important job but I got a lot of my identity and self worth from my job and now it is gone.  Some days it makes me cry, some I want to kick things and others I just daze off in the distance!!
Hayley-sounds like solids are going better-hooray  I mix bm, water and or pureed fruit with cereal.
Richelle-kwym about dh being messy messy MESSY although sometimes he cleans up and I am so thankful
Judy-struglling to always get in 4 solids bf a day.  The 11 and 3 ish ones here are sometimes great and others not so good.  When do we change to 3?
THis morning wake up at 4:45, 15 minutes before the stinking alarm is supposed to go off to get my butt to the gym.  Tried pupd then cuddling and that's all he really wanted.  Wouldn't go to sleep but was enjoying being held.  After an hour I put him in his crib and he started crying, walked out of the room and left him in there.  3 minutes later not a peep then a scream.  I yelled F!ck and Dh got up but then Ben went back to bed.  Dh left for work without saying goodbye because I had made myself a cave with the covers so NO ONE would bother me anymore.  I felt like saying to Ben JUST GO TO BED WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM. 
Must of ate a lot of grumpy food last night to put me in this y mood.
Okay all down feel much better but the irritability is still there.  I think I will try to steam it away in the shower.
Happy day to you all.
macaire