I wouldn't worry too much...keep in mind that your DD's main source of nutrition should still be formula and/or breastmilk for several more months. As long as she's still taking the proper amounts of these, she's getting the nutrition she needs, and solids are just a supplement to those.
That said, it's normal for preferences to vary quite a bit, and the best thing you can do is try to ride it out. Sometimes alternating spoonfuls works, and you can also try mixing, like you said. Tyler still likes some of the most vile (to me!) combinations of foods. His favorite for a loooong time was baby oatmeal mixed with fruit juice and mixed veggie puree. :roll: Your DD could also be getting ready for all-out spoon refusal in favor of finger foods...when that happens, babies often start out by rejecting savories. You could try introducing well-cooked veggie chunks as finger food (she'll probably need you to put them into her mouth until she gets the hang of it). I'm afraid I can't give you much advice on the meat front, hopefully someone else can! HTH!