I have been struggling with this very same thing! I have a couple of posts on this same topic. I was using the miracle blanket which my son HATED, so I decided it was time to wean him from it. However, I couldnt find a gradually method as he is not quite ready to be without it. I just tried the aussie swaddle again (the first time I chickened out), and he fell asleep :shock: I decided I would try again on a day he had good sleep and on a cat nap. I worked! you should try it!