Thank you for your quick reply! I generally stay with Taylor until she is in a deeper sleep. She will then sleep for the usual 30-35 minutes and wake up. I am there when she wakes up, and I try to soothe her right away. The only thing I have not yet attempted is the "wake to sleep" method. I was going to try today, but she woke up early (of course!) before I had a chance to go in her room! I have also thought about getting her up after this short nap, letting her have more A time and then putting her down again. However, the thought of trying to get her to sleep several more times a day makes ME exhausted! And I also would really like to keep her on a routine. Speaking of routine, here is a typical day for us.
Wake- anywhere from 5:45-7:00am. Before 7:00am I will try to put her back to sleep.
Between 7-7:30am- Feed
Activity time after feed
Generally sometime between 8:20-8:45 am we do wind down and put her down for a nap. (Then the fun begins!)
She will sleep for 30 minutes. We then try to get her back to sleep. We rub her belly and sshh. We also do p/u p/d if necessary. And lately, more often than not, it will take 45min to an hour to get her back to sleep,or she won't go back at all.
11:00am- Eat (she's on the four hour schedule)
A time
Anywhere from 12:15ish to 12:40ish (depending when we see she's tired)- wind down for nap
Same issues with afternoon nap
3:00pm- Eat
A
Somewhere between 4:45-5:00pm- cat nap (although she was screaming so much she didn't get one today!)
7:00pm- Eat
Bath, wind down and to bed for night (we hope!!)
10:30-11:00pm- Dream feed
So..... that 's her schedule, so to speak. Obviously it's not always that consistent, but we're trying to keep her on track as much as possible. I don't really know if there are any answers to the nap problems right now. We may just have to ride it out. I will keep trying, I just enjoy reading the posts, and thought I would throw my issues into the pot!
I was also wondering if anyone else reading this swaddles their baby, and how old is too old to continue to do this. She has definately found her hands... but they are a menace when she's trying to get to sleep.
Sorry this is so long, and thank you for letting me vent, and ramble!
Becky