Well, I have always seen him as an angel baby. He usually never fusses (except when he is overtired) he adapt super well to all situation, never is startled, plays in his bed or alone anytime. I'd take 100 like him...He is a very good kid, he is just not able to take back the sleep he is loosing.
I do know lots of mothers find that an overtired baby leads to nightwakings and goofy naps
He IS like that. When he gets overtired, his naps shorten, and so his nights. IMO he is waking up after 30 minutes of nap BECAUSE he is overtired. He was an excellent napper. He used to nap like 1.5-2 hours per nap at like 3 months, and then around 4 months started to shorten the nap. I really thought it was normal, because he dropped a nap. And then around 4.5 month, he started having this new trend that it would take him forever to fall asleep. He was NEVER fussing in his bed, but it could take him up to 1 hour and plus sometimes to fall asleep. I didn't know if it was because he was overtired, or if he was ready to srop a nap. So I tried with the overtired option, because his nap getting shorter was, at that point, the only reason why is nap would get shorter. But even with an earlier bedtime, and a rigourous routine, it didn't work. He started sleeping 30 mintues at a time. So at that point, I thought it was time to drop the 4th nap, and consolodate his sleep into 2 good naps, and one catnap. And from then on, Hell started. I tried to get him up longer, so that he would consolidate his sleep. Here we are today, he does stay up longer, but he has not consolidated his naps. So he is abslutely overtired. I see all the signs.
When I put him to bed at night, he wakes up an hour later. I don't need to go to him, he falls back asleep on his own, but that is the best sign for me knowing that he is overtired. He isn't able to nap long, and I honnestly don't think it is related to BF, or nap routine or anything, I think that it is because he is overtired. And so I'm stuck in this vicious circle where he doesn't nap well which is getting him overtired, and thus not able to fall asleep and stay asleep, thus not napping well...
I don,t know how to help him get out of that.
It is a good thing I have such a good baby, because otherwise, it would be a living nightmare every single day and night!
I haven't tried wake to sleep, although I seen it yesterday in the book. Today was not a good day, so I didn,t have time to read. But I think that is my last resort. I need to find a way to lenghten his naps to brake the circle. Then maybe his naps will be as long as they should be, and I'll be able to get him unto the schedule, because right now, every single day, we are totally off...
Thansk for your help, I just can hope that things will be back on track soon!