I just can't understand what is going on with my 14 months old dd. Background, her first year sleeping was really, really bad and she relied on me nursing her to sleep (yes, my fault). At 1-year old I discovered the baby whisperer method and she finally got to sleeping on her own, in her crib, and on occasion all night. However we are still having problems that I can't seem to tweek or pin-point what is going on with her. She ofter will wake-up early in the morning, any where from 3-5AM screaming her heart out. I always wait a few minutes before going into her to give her a chance to get herself back to sleep. I know she is able to get herself back to sleep because I do hear her moving around and making noises, sometimes a brief cry, several other times through-out the night, and I do not go into her. The times when she does go to all out crying and I try to console her, I just lay her back down, tell her everything is ok, it's time to sleep. Sometimes she will go right back to sleep with this encouragement, but many times she will cry her little heart out for as much as 2 hours, and I just don't know why or what to do. She is a spirted child and the crying is really loud and disturbing, it makes me feel horrible.
We also are still experiencing problems when she first is put down to sleep for both naps and for night-time sleeping. My husband and I take turns putting her to bed. We stay with her next to her crib as she is going to sleep. She often stands up and we lay her back down several times, just as when we started this method. If we're lucky, she goes to sleep with only a short and brief cry, other times she cries really hard for 30-50 minutes. Now I know one suggestion might be that she is afraid of the crib. So I did take her into the crib for play today, and she was fine playing in there for 25 minutes. Most of the time I was in the room as she played on her own, but I went in and out of the room without it being a problem. It did not seem like she was afraid of the crib. Someone please help me out, I'm ready to cave and go back to picking her up and rocking her.