we have been using pat/shush for naps on our 5 month old (just started this program last friday) tonight was the first night we tried though....ugh. it usually takes him 30 minutes to fall asleep for naps w/ pat/shush. well, tonight he went to bed at 8, i woke him for a dream feed at 11:30 and when he woke at 3 i started pat/shush...NOT WORKING. so i started pu/pd which only seemed to wake him more??? so we have been going at it for 1 hour and 15 minutes (i HAD to use the rest room, so DH took over). my question....do i have to continue w/ this at all night wakings from now on? what should i do if he wakes again at 5/6 (assuming he has gone to sleep by then, lol)? do i do this every night for all night wakings now? please help, we want to stick w/ the program but have hit lots of bumps along the way (more night wakings, shorter naps, etc.) since we started. i have gotten great advice here, as i have yet to finish the book (i have the newest one). any advice would be great. (and ds is breastfed) thanks!