Hi, i wanted to give an update and thank you again for all the info/support.
It is almost 2 weeks now w/ no dairy or soy and guess what...dd has the clearest nose in town! We are going tomorrow for her allergy testing and i was dreading taking her off the Zyrtec, but that too has been no problem - my guess is due to cutting out the dairy! I am going to keep her off the Zyrtec until it looks like she needs it. Who knows maybe she didn't really even need it!!!
I introduced soy today so we will see how she does (she really loves yogurt and liked to the soy yogurt).
When i asked her Doctor a last week if she could be MSPI, he said ya maybe! I told him 9mos ago that I thought whole milk and dairy were giving her problems and asked if she could have a milk allergy....so i used the wrong term. She is probably not Milk allergic but MPI - i could have hit him w/ my purse
Unfortunately she has had her 5th ear infection in 4mos and the 2 week course of antibiotics they gave her didn't work. But that was before stopping the dairy so i am still hopefull that this will mean she won't have to need to have tubes. She has been fussy all week (i thought it was her molars hurting) and it wasn't until today when she couldn't walk because her equilibrium was soo off that i figured it out. I can't wait until she can tell me what hurts, poor baby.