thanks! i know his A time is too long, but sometimes he will just lay and babble in his crib and still not sleep. last night was torture (after he fell asleep so well at 7 he had a dream feed at 10:30 then woke at 1:30, 3:30, 4:00, 5:00 and finally up at 7:00) THEN i tried to lay him down at the first sleep signs (around 9) but he had NOTHING to do w/ that! after an hour i gave up...brought him downstairs for some quiet time and tried again at 10:00....he fussed and fussed (but wasn't screaming) so i came downstairs and listened on the monitor...i checked on him every few minutes and he finally fell asleep at 11, and slept till 11:27. so he was awake from 7-11 and slept 1/2 hour. after he got up i tried feeding him (feeds are ALL off schedule) then had more quiet activity till about 1 when we ran out to the store. he fell asleep (in stroller) at 2:15 (up for 2 hours 45 minutes) and slept till 3:45 (1 1/2 hours YAY) but, i stayed in the car so i wouldn't have to move him and so i could read some of BW solves your problems) ~ then we gave him his first cereal tasting at 4:30 (he did great...LOVED it) and then quiet activity til 6 (which included introducing yet another pacifier...and...HE TOOK IT! the clear nuc pacifier...HE TOOK IT. so at 6 i gave him a bath, nursed him (cause he hadn't since 1, but hadn't wanted it earlier and i am trying to let him get good and hungry so he'll actually eat instead of snack). then we read a book, cuddled, i swaddled him (we haven't really done this since about 2 months) gave him his paci and he laid quietly from 7 till just now (w/ me checking every time he fussed...) he is ASLEEP! so, i'm thinking that the dream feed is messing his schedule up cause he eats right before bed and is not hungry at the DF so doesn't eat, then wakes in time for another nibble and so forth. so, i'm gonna see what time he naturally wakes tonight (w/out the DF) and hopefully (w/ the help of the pacifier) get him to wait till morning to eat (w/ only 1 feeding no later than 2 or 3) so he will EAT. what do you think? also, should i give him cereal or nurse 1st thing in the morning? should he have it 1 time tomorrow or for breakfast, lunch and dinner? anyway, maybe we can break this cycle and i can get him hungry when he wakes, so he can be on a real E-A-S-Y. also, DH is staying home tomorrow to help me! i hope it starts to get better now....