Hello everyone , and thank you so much for answering ,
after more than 2 weeks of waking up 5 to 8 times at night to give the paci back , my lo slept the whole night , he woke up once , made some sounds and went back to sleep on his own , now all we've got left to do is to make it easier for him to go to sleep , with the paci we used to put him in bed and he fell asleep in no time , he never used to cry before falling asleep , so its hard that he's crying before having a nap and before going to sleep at night , it happends that he falls asleep in our arms but we dont want him to get too used to it , so any advise will be great , i know that giving him the paci back is not fair and that i should be strong because i dont want him to have to part with it a second time and at an age that it will be much more difficult , but i'm worried , how it will be in the future , is it hard to calm a baby that doesnt have a paci ? like after getting his vaccinations , when he was crying so much , the paci was a real life saver !!! and i know there is much more to come . so is there a way to give back the paci for the realy hard moments , like crying and falling asleep and not to make him so dependant on it , or better not to even try it