Hi
So, it's been over a week now of easy and of course there have been good and bad days. Many times over the past week i have felt like i cannot face another epic tantrum when it is time for his nap and another one 45minutes later when he wakes early, but when i put him in his cot and he puts himslf to sleep, as he has done a number of times now,i really enjoy feeling like a success as a parent.
I do have some questions though. Of course my 14 week son doesn't always conform exactly to the times Tracy has prescribed, (however he does more or less) but If he wakes up early from his naps and i cannot put him back down to sleep using the shush pat method for the remainder of his nap time, usually another 45minutes left, do i put him back down for another nap approx 1hour 20minutes later from the time he woke, as this is when he will tired again, which will throw off the routine for the rest of the day, OR do i put him down at the next prescibed 'slot', when more than likely he'll be overtired and will be harder to settle?
I am however sticking to the feeding times but by changing his nap times by putting him down earlier say, he ends up being fed before he is supposed to sleep, which is a habit i am obviously trying to break.??
I feel trying to extend his nap times is the answer to these issues but this is easier said than done. Often he won't fall back to sleep and it ends up being the next feed time and i feel i have put him through all of the anguish with no end result of sleep. But i'm sure Tracy would tell me not to get into the 'poor baby' way of thinknig and this is how a successful routine is established...
Also he is waking at the moment for 2 ish and 5 ish for his night feeds and because he feeds so early in the morning he isn't interested in the 7.00am feed. Again, do i feed him at 8.00 when he is ready or wait until the next exact feeding slot at 10.00- if he will wait that long at all, being five hours since he last had a feed.
I did manage to get him to have a full df last night and he slept through till 2.30 which was pretty good.
Anyway i would really appreciate any advice on these issues, but on the whole things are hmmm-better!
Thank you
Josie K