hey all the other newbies! Am glad I am not the only one with these issues! Frustrating, huh? Dionne, sounds like we are on the same schedule with our babies?
Well what went from bad got worse - last 2 nights my DS was up EVERY 2 hours - this is after he slept from 9-5 on Friday night. Then Sat he was up at 3, 5, 7, 9- last night was the worst- went to bed at 8, woke up at 10, fed him again, then he woke up at 1:30 - didn't feed him- kept giving him Paci - he went back to sleep until 2 - woke again - gave Paci - slept until 3, woke again - this time I went down to warm some formula and he stopped crying during that time and had gotten himself back to sleep and slept until 5 this time - fed him (cause he usually gets fed at 5AM) then he slept until 8. I am exhausted and no clue what's going on. Maybe it's NOW a growth spurt and wasn't before? He will be 3 mos on Thurs. I can't even see straight. I was really hoping he'd sleep thru the night at 3 mos- or at least the ONE time feeding wasn't as bad but every 2 hours?
Here's his schedule as an FYI:
8AM - wake and feed (he takes 5-6 oz per feeding)
9:30 nap (sometimes 45 min, sometimes 90 - depends on day - this is for ALL naps)
11AM - feed
12:30- nap
2PM - feed
3:30 - nap
5PM - feed
6-7- a small cat nap
7-7:30- bathtime about 4x a week (not every night and I noticed it doesn't make a difference in his sleep)
8:00- final feed
9:00 - sleep
2, 3 or 5AM he's up - sometimes 2x, sometimes 1x - (except last 2 nights where he was up every 2 hours basically). I will feed if he's up 2x or even 1x, but last night I didn't cause it was every 2 hours.
I don't do a dream feed- have tried them and he seems to get up more if I do it so stopped. Cluster feeding doesn't work as he's never hungry for that.
Any suggestions on fixing these wakings, esp the last few? Also when he does wake - how much should I give? his usual feeding of 6 oz? If it's every 2 hours I can't do that obviously. I feel he's getting plenty to eat.
Someone told me to decrease his middle of the night feeding each night so the first night 6 oz, then 4, 3, 2 and then nothing. Well I tried that and got as far as the 2nd one and he was screaming for 30 min "cause he didn't get enuf"- so I stopped. Not sure if that's a good suggestion? She said he's big enuf to not need to wake for feedings. He also has white noise in bedroom and is swaddled. He is trying to find his hands but I've tried not swaddling him and he won't sleep at all.
Not sure on his weight but last month at his 2 mos checkup he was 11lbs and 5oz - he's probably well over 12 or even 13 now? He doesn't look like he misses any meals - LOL!
Thanks
Lauren