I gave blankets to both of my lo's when I stopped swaddling-around 3/4 mos. I've used the Baby Gund "dottie dots" blankets for my kids. They're soft, super cute and really good sized (small). A little pricey, I've found them at freebears.com for about $20 (including shipping/handling) and I always order a spare so when one is in the wash I can swap it out!