how long till the wedding? gee you will have your hands full, what about, sandwiches, fresh deli meat, egg and lettuce, cheese, i would try to do something that i didn't have to cook, do you have to do lunch for the adults too? if so what about cold chicken, salad and crusty bread, maybe a fruit platter afterwards, this way you can prepare before hand and enjoy your time with the family, have the best time