I've got a 4 wk old who we're really trying to do the dream feed with. The only problem is that he's impossible to wake up! His last feeding is around 7 and he goes down at 8ish and we're trying the dream feed at 10 or 10:30. I've started pumping to give him a bottle to try to keep as calm as possible like the book suggested, but once he's sleeping, he's really out! We've resorted to doing a quick diaper change to try to get him awake. The sitting upright and rubbing his hands doesn't help either. Does anyone have any suggestions that have worked with dream feeds when you've got a child who is totally asleep?