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18 month old refuses to nap
« on: February 10, 2006, 19:19:42 pm »
Hi!  I'm new and have a question I hope someone can help me with.  I have an 18month old dd who has been an angel baby since birth.  Slept 12 hours a night at 3 months old and has always had no problem sleeping/napping.  She gave up her 2nd nap at around 12 months and now completely refuses to nap.  She normally wakes up at 7:30a.m. and is very active.  Her usual nap window was noon.  If I put her down in her crib at noon, she will remain in there for up to an hour continually chatting and singing and playing and I can hear her kicking the crib, etc.  She won't sleep.  Regardless of how tired she is, she will remain active in her crib and will not nap.  However by 6pm she is beyond ready for sleep and will go down without a peep. 

I have tried putting her down earlier or later, I have tried waking her up earlier in the morning.  I have tried reading books and relaxing before her naps, all with no positive results.

I figure she is overstimulated and overtired, however I can't seem to figure out how to under-stimulate her to get her to settle down to sleep.  Because she sleeps 12-13 hours at night, does she no longer need to nap?  Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Re: 18 month old refuses to nap
« Reply #1 on: February 11, 2006, 16:16:22 pm »
Hi again, i just thought of something...when my LO starts sleeping more then 11.30/12 hrs at night she fights me more at nap time.  If you want that day time sleep to return and at this age she still needs in IMO.   Then you may want to gradually reduce her night sleep by 20mins every few days.  I found decreasing by waking her was better for us.

Hope that helps some. 

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Re: 18 month old refuses to nap
« Reply #2 on: February 11, 2006, 17:36:10 pm »
What about trying to put her down at 12:30 instead of 12?  And if it doesn't help, then try 1:00 instead of 12:30



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Re: 18 month old refuses to nap
« Reply #3 on: February 11, 2006, 17:43:20 pm »
I would try between 1.30 and 2pm for the nap to see.When you tried before,how long did you try for?
DOes she nap if you take her out?
I'd give it at least 2 weeks.
Is she happy without a nap or is she cranky?
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Re: 18 month old refuses to nap
« Reply #4 on: February 11, 2006, 21:59:57 pm »
I've tried putting her down at varying times during the day and with the same result--she's just in there chatting away and playing.  She's generally happy all day without a nap, it's just that around 4pm she's ready to eat, bath and go to bed--she's got the obvious tired signs and is just pretty easily irritated/frustrated.  She'll go down at 6-6:30 no problem.

I don't want to try waking her up any earlier as she's usually awake at 7-7:30am and to be honest, I can't handle being awake any earlier--I need the sleep. 

I'm just concerned that at this age she's not napping, it just doesn't seem right or heatlhy but she really doesn't seem to be suffering in any way.  It's just that mommy needs a break from her during the day. 

I've continued trying to nap her every day and it's been about a month since she's had a nap.  I'm so frustrated.
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Re: 18 month old refuses to nap
« Reply #5 on: February 12, 2006, 21:30:47 pm »
you know,if she's happy to play and chat at her naptime,then stick with
it.It gives you time to relax and also her time to relax.She's got the option
to either have a sleep or just while the time away.As long as she's not
screaming the house down,then I think that's fine.
She's obviously a happy little girl and it may be a growth spurt,some children
are a nightmare through growth spurts and some are just a bit more chilled out.
See how she goes over the next couple of weeks.
I personally would wake her earlier.She just may need the sleep she has
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