Okay.
The sep anx and sleeping is exactly the same as Emily.I tried staying in the room and gradually moving out
and it didn't work.I agree that she needs to get a proper bedtime.I would start with 6.45pm.
Start her straight away with walk in/out.
Lay him down,go out,count to 10,go back in,lay him down,go out,count to 10 and carry on this.
The first night is a nightmare so tell her to persevere.It took us 3 nights before she finally went to sleep
on her own and didn't wake during the night as she was overtired anymore.
That's the first thing I would do.If she gets the sleeping sorted out,then the rest will fall into place.
The juice in the bottle is a problem as it will affect the enamel on the teeth as well as speech in some (not all)
cases.She may find it helpful to take lo shopping to choose his own cup.
I'm still working on the sep anx and have been for months.It takes lots of praise and making lo hold her hand if they want
to go with you to the kitchen etc.It can sometimes take me 5 or 10 mins to persuade Em to hold my hand instead
of a cuddle,but when she does I go way overboard on the praise.
The sleeping helps with sep anx as well,as they are well rested and not so cranky.
Naps,I would tell her not to let him nap after 3.30pm.But when he's sleeping properly this should be better.I would get him to nap after lunch,by doing walk in/out for a while.
I wouldn't put him in a big bed until this is better.
Let me know how you go.
I promise it will work.If it worked for Emily it'll work for anyone
But please stress to her the first night she'll want to @*(&@
but after 3 nights it'll be better