Okay. I have thought about this, and watched him. He is NOT hungry at night. Regardless of whether or not i feed him at one of his wakings, he is still waking up every hour. As much as I respect what everyone is saying, I just know the difference between his cries, and he is not hungry crying when we wakes and he doesn't empty both breast when I feed him. He slept until 7am, but EVERY hour was awake. EVERY hour. If I don't feed him, he is up every hour just the same, and sleeping until 6:30 or so. I don't mind if he needs to be on a 3 hour schedule, but HE is pushing the schedule to 4, not me. I just am trying to go with him, where he needs to go... and he seems ready. I reverted back to the 3 hour schedule for the last couple of days, and the sleeping is worse. I would do anything to meet his needs regardless of where he is, but he seems to be in some difficult transition place, and its losing me. I'm sort of at my wits end, and drained from this whole thing. I want SO BAD to do the right thing, and I feel like the issue has to do with him not being able to self soothe back to sleep, (which would effect the nap problem as well.) I have regulated his eating amounts to a comfortable amount. Most people around me, think I'm crazy for not letting him cry for a little bit. But I have really been committed to Tracy's rationale. I don't think he is developmentally ready for a pure PU/PD... plus until this week, the shhh/pat works pretty good. I just am losing my options at this point, because I don't know what is best for this hourly waking. Im sorry to seem so desperate or negative... I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. Like I said, I don't think its the food, and I don't think I am pushing him to move along when he is not ready, like I thought I could have been. When we make the shifts as suggested, he just doesn't respond as one would think. I do think its a sleep problem not a feed problem... BUT I am going to the EASY board to see what I can find. In the meantime, thanks for reading and sorry for the frustration. I have never been more challenged in my life. Thanks, L.